you obviously have low self esteem...if she likes u she likes u, just go with it. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder sort of thing!
2006-11-13 15:04:13
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answered by Anonymous
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From a guy to a guy. First, a question : Do you know her, and , if so, how long? This could help determine if she really likes you. Another: How trustworthy is your cousin? If he/she has a history of tricking you, be careful. Otherwise, friends and family are a great source.
Don't put yourself down. Believe me, I used to put myself down, thinking my looks would never help me score ( I hate using that word). But then, I met a girl who has changed my opinion of myself. How do I know? I stole her from her Homecoming date.Now we're dating. I know you have some atractive features ( don't take me wrong on this). Use them to your advantage. I used my sense of humor and charm to win her heart (not bragging, it's true.) Example:If people think your funny, then be funny. Don't over do it, just sprinkle in a good one now and then.
Find out what her interests are. Don't hold back around her. You must impress her, and at the same time show her you are an all right kind of guy. You might just be able to win her.
Be careful, and have fun. If you hold back, you'll never realize what your missing. And remember: DON"T PUT YOURSELF DOWN!!!!!Look at yourself in the mirror, and tell yourself that you are not ugly. Believe me. I have seen some ugly guys have some of the hottest girlfriends on campus. She can be all yours if you just try. I tried, and I won the game (if you ever heard the song).
2006-11-13 15:34:28
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answered by spydogink 2
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Without knowing how old you or this girl is, I just want to say that it is true that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. There are still some of us girls out here who look a little deeper than the outer appearance. By what standards do you think you are ugly? Is this something that people say to you or just your own image of yourself? Find a way to find yourself in the same place with this girl and try to strike up a conversation, see how that goes, don't sell yourself short.
2006-11-13 15:13:51
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answered by Julie W 2
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miracles do happen.Miracles do happen.Its not all about looks maybe she likes your personality.In life where you meet jerks sometimes you meet good people too maybe your cousin is one of them who do not value others on such superficial grounds as looks or money but has some real depth of character and judgement.But still be on the safe side and dont fall for her headlong check her honesty and see that she is not playing any games on you.Anyhow an advice for you focus on developing other good humane qualities within yourself and not just your cousin but many good people will be attracted towards you.You might turn your ugliness to your advantage as superficial people will run away from you,good riddance and the real good people will come towards you,welcome them and love them.Dont let anybody make you think bad about yourself you are wonderful the way you are just focus on being a humane and good person.Do good to others,You will love life and live a happy and fulfilling life.Focus on finding God(Allah) and that would make you realize the real beauty of this Universe,Allah.
2006-11-13 15:14:03
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answered by Anonymous
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First of all you are what you believe yourself to be, you might not be a GQ model but you can change your appearance to look attractive to others, just try to eat right work out and take pride in who you are, I was called a nerd in school a lot and thought I was also ugly, puberty has a strange way of kicking in at the worst times. I later went on to date and get married to a former Miss Panama contestant finalist. So change your attatude and keep you chin up..Good luck
2006-11-13 15:10:40
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answered by dheck03 3
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yes, grasshopper, it will make more and more sense as you get older! looks are cheap and short-lived, honesty, integrity, humor, compassion, those things end up meaning the most to GOOD women (post-girls). and you can never see yourself how others see you anyway. so give up the "ugly" self-perception, it's just in your head.
2006-11-13 15:07:36
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answered by gggjoob 5
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First work on your selfasteam if you feel good about your self Women will notice you a lot more. Keep your head up make eye contact and smile.
2006-11-13 15:07:09
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answered by Wiseguy 3
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First thing i look @ in a guy in personality. If a guy cannot make me laugh. Theres no chance of us being together. Be yourself aorund here. See where things go.
2006-11-13 15:06:44
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answered by Jessica D 2
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my husband say the same thing but really its not always about looks. the 1st thing i notice about my husband was his personality so go for it take a chance it might turn out the way u want it
2006-11-13 15:06:47
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answered by lissa f 2
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well sorry to say this but your cuzin probably was lying.
but i do kno a lot of pretty girls tht fall for not so pretty guys. Talk to the girl and find out for yourself if she likes u
2006-11-13 15:05:02
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answered by blondie_XxX_blondie 1
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