We break up and then we get back together. It goes on and on. He is 23 years old and says he is a virgin and saving himself for marriage. I've been married, so of course I'm not a virgin.
He has a room mate. This guy is the pretty boy type and my first impression when I met him is he is gay. (I have many gay friends, so I may be wrong at times, but sometimes, I can tell) but then this guy was telling me about his gf and how I should meet her. (not gay? or is she a cover up) On halloween my bf and the friend dressed as women. (Maybe gay? maybe not.)
My bf got arrested and the friend was so worried that we needed to hurry up and get him out and came up with the bond money and wanted to go with to get him. (gay or just a good friend?)
I have gotten close to having sex with him, but once I got in his pants, he acted willing and ready but as I reached into my purse for the condom he backed off and acted upset at me, but really wasn't, I found out later.
brb more. plz wait for add on.
2006-11-13 15:01:45 · 6 answers · asked by real_sweetheart_76 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we recently broke up again he says he knows there is another guy. There is NOT. (You all don't know me, why would I hide it from all you strangers)
Yesterday his friend called me and told me my bf has another girl and being my friend, he thought he should tell me. He then went on to say he was moving out because my bf is an a$$hole for doing me this way.
I ask my transvestite and other gay friend who were there when I got the call. The transvestite insisted he was gay. I asked my other gay friend, and he also thinks the same thing.
This morning I took him to court (as I had promised before all this crap with the phone call) and afterward, although we were broke up again, he wanted to make out when we got back to his house.
Please give me your take on this. I have never loved anyone, (not even my ex-husband) as much as this man. I wanna know what's going on with him.
2006-11-13 15:08:23 · update #1
after 2 years of patiently waiting and not cheating on him with anyone and this is how I get treated.
2006-11-13 15:12:00 · update #2
grimmy, your answer does put my mind at ease though. Hopefully you're right.
2006-11-13 15:16:29 · update #3
If I would have to make a assumption I would say he is borderline gay. He's still in the closet and not sure if he wants to come out and make the full transition into the gay world. His brain is probably still racking on the norm of being straight but likes to keep his homosexual desires hushed. Its very common for this type of gayness to occur. My dad's brother my uncle still dose this and he is in his 40's. He even has lesbian friends he poses of as his wife or girlfriend whatever the case may call. Well hey if things don't work out I'm avavlible.
2006-11-13 15:12:49 · answer #1 · answered by juggalo27028 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bein' a virgin doesn't make you gay...
bein' a pretty boy doesn't make you gay...
She could be a cover up (never know... I wouldn't jump that far to that conclusion)...
I'm not gay... and I dressed up as a woman on Halloween (I live in the South... nothin' scarier then a man.. who hasn't shaved his face... in high heels and a dress)... So this doesn't automatically make him gay...
When I got arrested... my best friend was frantic... tryin' to get the bond money (though he didn't... It actually came from my sister and fiancee's dad)... Not wanting a good friend in jail isn't a big indicator of homosexuality...
He's a VIRGIN... he's not gonna be comfortable with you goin' down into his pants...
I would say that given the information that you have given... it is a higher probability that he's not gay... however... you paint a good enough picture to make people think that he may be gay...
Would it help you mentally to assume that he's gay?? if so... he is...
2006-11-13 23:14:41 · answer #2 · answered by grimmy19812000 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I considered a number of ways to determine whether or not your boyfriend is gay and decided to use the HGP Scale (Hollywood? Gay? Please. Scale).
On the left side of the scale is Liberace, representing ridiculously flaming 'mos who tend to go home at Thanksgiving and bring a "friend" and share the single bed in the room he grew up in. On the right side of the scale is John Wayne, who refuses even to shake hands with another man, preferring to punch a male acquaintance in the face as a way to say hello.
Now, our scientific determination is that your boyfriend makes Liberace look like John Wayne.
2006-11-13 23:11:04 · answer #3 · answered by wineboy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he's gay. My dad dressed up as a woman for Halloween one year. He's definately straight. When the two of you were about to have sex, was he hard? It's a dead sign he's turned on by u if he was otherwise I would wonder. THere are a lot of men who are meterosexual. Straight men who have gay qualities because they care about how they look and dress...
Best of Luck!
2006-11-13 23:30:27 · answer #4 · answered by coolchick 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would he not tell you if he was gay. Does he need a woman cover and is on the DL. If not he most likely is not gay.
2006-11-13 23:19:55 · answer #5 · answered by bigslick60 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it seems like something is going on there and before you leap be careful and sometimes your first thought is right but it will come out sooner than you think so just wait good luck
2006-11-13 23:08:59 · answer #6 · answered by poda 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋