My Child is ugly,and i can't stand looking at him,I don't understand why i can't feel anything for my child,I can't even tolerate him in the house any more,for the past two weeks i set up a tent in our back yard and made him think he was camping,i set out water and food for him,what should i do ? He costs me money with all his facial reconstructive surgery ...Should I enroll him in a circus to help pay the medical bills? or try to pass him off to a family member? ( this isnt my first child he's the youngest of the 5 beautiful kids i have,but he just turened out differant and i dont know how to deal with it) Serious answers only?
2006-11-13 14:59:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
heres what you do. head to the nearest gunshop, purchase a firearm, ammunition is a must, blow your brains out in the parkinglot. if you aren't down for that sell your ugly child for crack to smoke with your other kids.
2006-11-13 15:13:58 · answer #1 · answered by I Kick Babies 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to go to a therapist to talk to someone about why your child being ugly would affect you in such a manner. Looks are not everything.
Please try to focus on the things your child does right. Does he have a sweet disposition? Praise him for that. Does he have the normal activity levels of a child his age? Praise him for that. Is he smart? Praise him for that.
I am sure you mean well, but your child will already be unfairly singled out in the world due to his looks, so he needs your support the most. I'm sure that all the stress and financial burden are difficult, but trying to pass him off to a family member or send him to the circus should not be viable options at this point. Best of luck to you and your child.
2006-11-13 15:13:30 · answer #2 · answered by nikirr 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
OMG how can you say that about your child lady if you don't want that baby let me have & raise that baby in a loving home to witch he well have a best of everything in clueding a loving home with some that can take the time & money to give that child a home & a life were he needs to be ... if i knew were you lived i would come for that child right now with out a question & have you sign papers over to me cause i love children very much no matter what thay look like my GOD lady you need to wake up & give that baby a loving home like mine
2006-11-13 15:06:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
you need family therapy and desperately,,your child should not think he is different from his siblings,,he should not be segregated,,he should be taught yes,,he looks different but inside he is just as beautiful as anyone else,,you could give him serious mental issues that will increase with age and his self-esteem will be in the toilet,,he needs to have his mothers love and for you to act differently from one child to another will encourage the other children to treat him the same,,you will cause your children to judge by looks and this is not good,,he has a right to a loving home,,he has a right for his parents to care for him and his welfare,,he has a right to eat indoors with the rest of his family,,,,,,you have 5 children and yes it must be hard but what about him,,,is it not his own face he sees in the mirror everyday,,is it not him who sees how others look at him,,you should be encouraging his Independence,,his well being,,his conscious opinion of himself,,there are many families with medical bills running into tens of thousands and many try to support themselves,,they fund raise,,they take on loans,,they sell their souls to make the best of what they have,,,all we can read here is hatred and for you to love your other children and loath this one makes you someone bordering on the edge,,you need help and we all suggest you get it,,pick up the phone before you end up doing something you could be jailed for.if any family member who shows kindness towards him is available let him go there because as it sounds,,anywhere would be better than with you.AAAARRRRGGGGHHHHH
2006-11-14 00:00:07 · answer #4 · answered by lex 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are crazy. Maybe you need to send all of your children to foster homes. While they are gone, you need to get your tubes tied and take parenting classes....... The more I think about it, the better off the kids will be without you!
2006-11-13 15:11:13 · answer #5 · answered by angelica 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
ok is this a joke?? if it is not then you are abusing that poor child and you need to remember that he did not asked to be born with anything wrong with him, i mean really. and there are lots of people who would love your son and think that he is the beautiful child he is. you really need to stop and reevaluate what you are doing. and what are you teaching your other children. you are wrong wrong.
and if this is a joke it is not very funny
2006-11-13 15:07:57 · answer #6 · answered by justme 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
You are sick and selfish. I feel horrible for this child if you are for real... your other questions sound just as selfish and dumb. Grow up, get a life. Try spell check too.
2006-11-13 15:13:05 · answer #7 · answered by m930 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You aren't being serious are you? If you are you need to seek help because what you are doing is child abuse. If this is a sick joke ha ha not funny.
2006-11-13 15:02:06 · answer #8 · answered by mommysrock 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
your kidding right that is horrible to say maybe something went wrong during the pregnancy maybe tis your fault
2006-11-13 15:03:07 · answer #9 · answered by pickel231991 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
maybe he belongs to one of the 11 men you said you cheated on your husband with.
you cruel bitc*
2006-11-13 15:12:44 · answer #10 · answered by natasha 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋