He lied, slept around. But then again so did i. I also had a boyfriend. I found out about another girl he was with, and lied to me about, and i B*thched him out hardd.....then i ended it for good. He has little repsect...i know this becuase he lied. Im way better than any other girl hes been with or is with. We ended it two months ago...just started talking again.....and i like it. But he hurt me so much. Am i stupid if i go back to seeing him ( not on a formal basis...casually....s*xually). I want to but i know i shouldnt. He called me this weekend and i confessed i still wanted him( drunk) then...hes been calling me ever since. Im still young...i have nothing to loose. A month ago i wanted revenge and for him to die...but now... what do i do
2006-11-13 14:52:40 · 10 answers · asked by kittykatB4 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You say you were the best thing hes had but yet you cheated on him and lied to him too.. How is that a good thing. I dont know if you guys deserve eachother because you both lie n cheat and only want eachother when its right for you or you guys both go your seperate ways and learn to grow up a little if you want to get into another relationship, but if u just want to have your fun, do that, just dont get into a relationship that you are just goin to mess around with again.
2006-11-13 14:57:19 · answer #1 · answered by Jessica D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you really want to continue the vicious circle? The best thing you can do is GET OUT of the relationship all together. I mean, do you really think you will ever move on and have a relationship where a guy will treat you like gold and not hurt you if you keep screwing around with this guy? If you're even doubting getting back with him a little, that should be a big enough hint that you shouldn't.
2006-11-13 23:02:03 · answer #2 · answered by *mxgirl115* 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you go back to seeing him casually, who will it hurt? Is there a boyfriend in your present, or a girlfriend in his? It would hurt both of them. Do you see yourself planning a future with this guy? Is he someone you would want to spend the rest of your life with? Would either of you be able to fully trust the other again? These are some questions that you should be asking yourselves. To really love someone there must be trust, all entwined with the love or it can destroy any happiness you may think you have found. Sex is a wonderful thing in the right circumstances and if you know what you are doing won't hurt others. Tread lightly and good luck with your decision
2006-11-13 23:04:17 · answer #3 · answered by Julie W 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Becky: Ask yourself; why would I chance either, getting a STD or giving an STD ? You are playing with fire screwing around like that and so is your ex ! If you contract an STD ... no one in his right mind will want you around. You are young and have LOTS to lose ! You have love and acceptance mixed up. You can give love (not sex) and be accepted by others for who you ARE not who you screw. Give yourself credit ... I think you are getting sick and tired of the roller coaster ride with trying to form a relationship built on sex. You want security and once the sex is over - the relationship soon follows. Just date a lot of guys and have sex with NONE of them. You will feel a lot better about yourself and be in better control over your life, socially ! Good luck to you !!!
2006-11-13 23:10:34 · answer #4 · answered by guraqt2me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say no, if he was unfaithful last time, then he'll be unfaitful this time, but also take in account that he jusy might be faithful and you were unfaithful too (since you cheated as well), you could hurt him the same way he hurt you. Trust, getting involved in this kinda relationship, there is actually plenty you can lose.
2006-11-13 22:58:22 · answer #5 · answered by jazzy_jazz16 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not have an open relationship? It sounds like you both care for each other, but prefer to have other companions on the side. Just make sure you are both honest with each other, and don't hide things. But make sure he knows you are to be #1 priority.
2006-11-13 22:59:11 · answer #6 · answered by Bedazzled101 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Rebecca... Has the leopard changed his spots??? If you can live with him cheating on you... However, you were a cheat also... You just didn't get caught...
2006-11-13 23:01:25 · answer #7 · answered by James B 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You just answered your own question.
2006-11-13 22:56:16 · answer #8 · answered by three6ty 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You both sound perfect for each other!
2006-11-13 22:54:55 · answer #9 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if u go back with him, you are so id.... find some1 else u can trust.
2006-11-13 22:56:34 · answer #10 · answered by Oriel-Nirnaan 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋