2006-11-13 14:12:54 · 10 answers · asked by KARMA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try to talk to them about it. If they can't be mature and give you a decent answer give them the flick. Why do you want to waste your time trying to make someone happy who is not making you happy?
2006-11-13 14:15:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You definitely want to say something. If someone is being short with you there is probably something wrong. The best way to handle it is to find out what the problem is and find a solution to the problem. It may not even be you. They might have a problem at work or home that's bothering them but they are taking it out on you. Communication is the secret to a great relationship. Without it, you have nothing but secrets.
2006-11-13 22:18:21 · answer #2 · answered by QDPie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first ask yourself if you have committed any "sins" in the past few weeks... forgotten a birthday or anniversary... spoken to a hated enemy... flirted in front of your loved one... if so apologize and the rudeness should stop
if you have not committed any "sins" then your significant other is having problems that may or may not have anything to do with you...
my advice would be to sit down with this person and ask point blank what the problem is... communication is the first step in any relationship... you may discover that you have committed a "sin" that you didn't realize... or you may discover that there are problems at work or school... or you may discover unhappiness in the relationship
the person i was dating was being really short to me for the past month... i knew i had done nothing to cause this... there was general unhappiness in his life... and he was taking it out on me... we talked and have now ended said relationship on a good note
you never know what will happen but you really do need to talk to this person... i would not let it ride...
2006-11-13 22:24:29 · answer #3 · answered by auntbea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how long you've been dating. If not long, the rudeness could be a ploy to get rid of you. If you know the person well and this is unusual, find out what the problem is.
2006-11-13 22:14:53 · answer #4 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to them and find out what the problem is....maybe it is not you....
Something could be brothering them.
No, do not ride it out. clear it up now. If it is about you, etc...find out now,
you would not want to marry someone like that.
Talk is the key.
Hope all works out sincerely.
2006-11-13 22:18:12 · answer #5 · answered by Eve 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends how much you're otherwise into her. Sometimes we get stressed out about other things, and that can affect our relationships. Or she might be trying to distance herself from you specifically. Just ask her what's going on.
2006-11-13 22:17:25 · answer #6 · answered by zmj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id let it go. I wouldnt take it so seriously if its just a couple times. but of course, if it starts getting frequent it wouldnt hurt to have a little talk about it.
2006-11-13 22:17:07 · answer #7 · answered by Mayonaise 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could it be pms, if so ride i out
good luck and smile big even when it hurts
2006-11-13 22:16:42 · answer #8 · answered by Shorty 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he is short much longer ,look for someone taller
2006-11-13 22:14:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
could be hormonal ride it out.....PMS is a biiiiotch!!
2006-11-13 22:15:18 · answer #10 · answered by never2pink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋