everytime i want to say something nice to her i end up saying something irrelevant or stupid and she ends up getting the wrong impression of me. any input on how to help the matter will be appreciated ty.
2006-11-13 14:03:01 · 7 answers · asked by j 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my suggestion, DONT PLAN AHEAD!!! if you plan ahead it just puts pressure. on you just go and do what you normally do and if you bump into her just say something that you would say to any other girl. like hey thats a neat shirt. or if she is into sports compliment something shes done well in sports. or whatever shes good at compliment her on it!!!!!!
2006-11-13 14:13:51 · answer #1 · answered by lauranakf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel the same way with guys sometimes. Maybe she does too. At any rate, I only feel bad if a guy is obviously struggling with stuff to say. I'd not judge you for it. Just explain yourself and move on. Keep trying! At least you are talking at all.
2006-11-13 22:06:35 · answer #2 · answered by Ciera 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have the courage to go up and talk to her so that's in your favor right there. I would say keep trying---it should get easier each time. You don't say how she reacts and it doesn't sound like she's discouraging you. Hopefully she's a nice girl who can see you are trying to talk and be nice to her and understands.
2006-11-13 22:18:06 · answer #3 · answered by Hopeful girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might be just shy or overwhelmed because you like her, if she likes you as well she might think you are funny or cute, just laugh at it, maybe write her a note or excuse yourself by jokingly saying "sometimes my brain and mouth do not connect properly".
or "I really didn't mean saying that, just kidding"
2006-11-13 22:15:33 · answer #4 · answered by silver wings 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont try just go with the flow .. joke around and be playful
2006-11-13 22:04:53 · answer #5 · answered by ~*Lynn*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time you say something stupid, try to joke about it....
2006-11-13 22:06:08 · answer #6 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't talk.
2006-11-13 22:04:59 · answer #7 · answered by PS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋