Me and my boyfriend are both freshman in high school, and weve been together for only about a month. Ive had boyfriends before, but i'm his first girlfriend. So ive had my first kiss and everything already, but he had his first kiss with me, and i didnt want to say anything to him, but basically he's a terrible kisser. i dont want to be a jerk or anything, because hes obviously never kissed anyone before, and i had,so hes not as "experienced" ..for lack of a better word. should i say something? or should i jus let it go and get over it?
2006-11-13 14:01:08 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Seems like it's up to you whether you want to teach him the rules of the trade or not. Your relationship shouldn't be just about kissing. You should like him because of his personality not because of how talented he is with his tongue. Don't say anything to him. He'll figure it out in time, just like you had to do.
Good Luck.
2006-11-13 14:04:54 · answer #1 · answered by MakeBelieve. All you want. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let it go, you was he's first. He is not completely knowledgeable on how to do things. Believe me, I know. There was an ex of mine that had he's first kiss from me, and he absolutely sucked at it. That was like four years ago, but I kissed him again recently and he is alot better. He just needs experience. That's all. Just keep at it, lol. He'll improve.
2006-11-13 22:04:49 · answer #2 · answered by kckell2311 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may want to kindly say to him why don't you try doing this or that while kissing. I'm certain that he would not be offended and would probably appreciate any suggestion you make to him in order to satisfy not only you but his future girlfriends also. Honesty is number one in any relationship, at any age. You don't have to be rude or make him feel any less macho but kindly suggest that he try something different. We all had to learn how to kiss at one time or another.
2006-11-13 22:05:29 · answer #3 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let it go because everyone kisses bad their first kiss. Its sloppy and gross but as you kiss more often they get better! So if it didnt make you loose interest in him (which thats happend to me before) wait it out and practice =)
2006-11-13 22:06:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Practice makes perfect. Don't rush him, let him learn how to kiss you better or ask him to read the Cosmopolitan Magazine and that my teach him some new tricks. Let him take his time and take things slow.
2006-11-13 22:08:38 · answer #5 · answered by Angelbub 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're a freshman in high school, you must be 15 years old. You'll probably be with this boy for about two months. Don't worry about it- it really won't matter in the grand scheme of your life.
2006-11-13 22:04:09 · answer #6 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you should blurt out and say " You Suck at Kissing!" if you say that he might feel horrible and this may discourage him from wanting to kiss other girls ( IN CASE YOU GUYS DONT STAY TOGATHER) and he may feel shy or self concious....what you should do is that when you guys are kissing try to throw in some "helpful" hints for him to follow...Dont mention he sucks cuz guys are super sensitive...just slighty hint to him.
2006-11-13 22:05:48 · answer #7 · answered by Angelwings87 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he will improve w practice- get him to try different ways to kiss- and not mention how other guys kiss- he was probably so thrilled just to get to kissed- D
2006-11-13 22:03:50 · answer #8 · answered by Debby B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why not just gently let him know that he needs to work on his technique and them show him how to kiss better? I'm sure that he would not mind you showing him via demonstration . . .
Just make sure to give him positive reinforcement as he improves and let him know that you are enjoying his improved kissing as he gets better.
2006-11-13 22:04:48 · answer #9 · answered by LewAR26502 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the kissing is to bad where you can't take it yes say something. But you can train him (not meaning likea dog) to do it your way or in a good way.
2006-11-13 22:05:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋