Ok, well me and my b/f been together long time ago but i broke up with him due to family problems.. he thinks i left him for some other guy. This thought comes back to him from time to time. What can i do? I never cheated on him or left. Gosh. Please give me advice!!!
2006-11-13 14:00:13 · 8 answers · asked by Candy_T 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's more like my mom didnt want me with him...
2006-11-13 14:07:34 · update #1
There is nothing you can do. It is his problem. If you are in a relationship with him and he does not trust in you or have faith in you then why are you with him anyway? It is not like over time he will become more trusting of you. It sounds like he is insecure about things... that does not bode well for your future together. All you can do is sit him down and explain to him why you needed a break from him and what you were doing during your time apart... if he does not believe you then why would you want to make things with him work? Trust is even more important than love.
2006-11-13 14:07:52 · answer #1 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hello..you've reached Shakira Shakira..
I can't answer your question right now.
I am too busy answering someone elses question:
"Why ARE GIRLS SO NEGATIVE?"
Please leave a message after the BEEP, and when you stop generalizing, i will get back to you.
thanks!
(Guys CAN be negative because they're human. That's why women, and people in general CAN be negative. Nothing to do with gender at all~In your case the guys suspicious...Can you blame him? You weren't honest..and maybe you had your reasons...(although there is never a GOOD reason)...but this guy is feeling your dishonesty about why you broke up...and he's trying to figure out what is really going on...and you need to tell him the truth. Trust me...it'll make a huge difference!)
Best of luck with this one, but remember...it's not really fair to ask such a general question. Try including all people...why are people so negative..and then ask your question..you'll still get the answers you need!! :)
2006-11-13 14:03:53 · answer #2 · answered by Shakira 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He isnt negative he is an a** if he dont understand that you left him because of family problems tell him to go fu*k himself seriously or give him the finger and tell him to shove it hes not worth your time. I hate guys like that they think your with somebody else and your not shows how much he really cares for you, dont even bother with him
2006-11-13 14:21:53 · answer #3 · answered by mommyandbaby 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the best you can do is give him your word and of he doesnt believe it, maybe u shouldnt be together or just need time off, also tell him the real reason y u cant see each other, just saying family problems can seem really suspicious
2006-11-13 14:05:36 · answer #4 · answered by squashburn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont stereotype the whole male species cuz you made the mistake of not telling the truth
2006-11-13 14:05:50 · answer #5 · answered by Daniel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be glad to answer your questions if I knew what the heck your questions was.
You need to be more specific.
2006-11-13 14:02:50 · answer #6 · answered by txguy8800 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dumped him.
This injury will marr his soul forever.
Just leave him alone now, before you do more harm.
2006-11-13 14:02:13 · answer #7 · answered by Pastor Sauce 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't see any evidence here that would suggest that this guy is negative.
2006-11-13 14:35:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋