a girl said that she didnt believe in llove and that it was all crap. please give me your opinion
2006-11-13 13:57:14 · 9 answers · asked by jairo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love DOES exist, my friend... it just means different things to different people.
WHY does it exist? Because WE do. It is part of the human existence - part of our evolution and composition - to love and be loved in return.
You have to find the person who "fits" with your love concepts and emotional requirements. Don't try to "change" the other party.
I have learned that, essentially, people are like rubber bands: You can "stretch" them away from themselves to fit your needs, but eventually, they'll snap back to their original personality.
So why waste time with someone who does not see things as You do when it concerns your heart?
The girl you mentioned apparently has not found her love partner yet. Based on your quote, she also sounds pretty angry about something. In my opinion, unless you want to be with her, I would advise your looking for love elsewhere where your attentions would not be difficult to experience and enjoy or be prepared for possibly, a very dissatisfying relationship.
I hope this reply answers your question I'm sure others have been curious about at one time or other. Thanks for posting it.
2006-11-13 14:30:21 · answer #1 · answered by GMarieP 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
No...It doesn't exist really...or it might. I've read all of the comments. And agree with a lot of it. Being a 54 year old female., I was wondering that myself. And decided to type it in for the heck of it, and I got this page. Go figure. I think back to all of my past relationships and remembered how much I was in love with them. I would move the Earth for them. I gave them everything I could to make THEM happy. I really wasn't in a lot of relationships. But they would last from 5 years to 10 years. Just to end with being cheated on and left. The one that lasted 10 years hurt the worst. He was my everything. Color me Stupid. Of course when it ended I asked what it was that I did wrong. His simple answer was that I wasn't enough of a ***** to him. Really?? So, in the long run...When we think that we are in love. It really isn't. Because more times than not it isn't felt by the other person. It all comes back to being the Exception and being the Exception to the Rule. We have all heard the rumors that God has made Someone for Everyone. At least that is what has been said. If that is true, I think that mine was hit by a truck or something, because I haven't found it. We get to the point that we just settle. I did. And so did my Husband. Sad, isn't it. But at this point this is what works for us. And honestly I won't give up on Love being out there. Somewhere.
2015-09-19 14:57:35 · answer #2 · answered by Janet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure it exists, I've been in it. On the other hand I think it is much rarer than movies would have you believe. I found it, lost it and haven't found it again in 20 more years of looking.
2006-11-13 14:01:02 · answer #3 · answered by hankthecowdog 4 · 6⤊ 0⤋
dude i ues to go to el base de rota in spain love it and fel in love there. love is in your mind and it can be killed by the other person by acting bad and dong things to the person that loves them. once that is done its over and the person that was treate badly will not love a gain for a long time.
2006-11-13 14:02:16 · answer #4 · answered by roy40372 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love definitely exists. I am very much in love with my husband and he very much loves me. I don't know what I would do without him. The spiritual side of this is.. God is love. So I believe that love not only exists, but is a very intricate part of our lives. Maybe that girl has been hurt a lot and doesn't know what love is.
2006-11-13 14:00:58 · answer #5 · answered by Lori C 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Honestly I don't know, if it does, it is very rare indeed,but if one is lucky enough to find it hold on to it as long as you can before it fades to nothing.
2014-11-25 21:27:20 · answer #6 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was told that love is that tickly feeling in your heart that can't be scratched.....
Then as I grew up I realized that there are different types of love.
In the end..........love is true, blind, deaf and dumb.
2006-11-13 14:08:24 · answer #7 · answered by FireBug 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe for other people, but definitely not for me. I'm just immune to it. Get me in touch with that girl — she sounds like my kind of woman.
2006-11-13 15:48:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 3⤋
i love my husband
i love my children
i love my parents
i love my grandparents
i love my sister
i love my nieces and nephews
above all i love God and he love us all.
2006-11-13 14:00:33 · answer #9 · answered by special 4 · 9⤊ 14⤋