Just interested in your opinions- I had one with my brother's best friend, although I thought it would be more than that since they've been friends for years and I was really interested in him and didn't think he would want to hurt me. But it turns out it didn't matter and my brother found out and doesn't seem to mind. Should I just get over this and accept that I should have been smarter or are these guys just assholes?
2006-11-13 13:56:07 · 8 answers · asked by redpillowcase 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you got played
2006-11-13 14:24:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you have learned a hard lesson...one can't go by what your feelings are...one must be smart and respect themselves enough not to fall into that trap. You have to move on, perhaps you can keep it quiet and not ruin your rep. I would visit a DR. for sometimes things and people are not as kosher as you would think. You need to realize your brother does not have enough sense to protect you or he does not realize the damage he has permited. You must move on. No they are not asses...just idiots.
AS you were at the time as well. You can wisen up from this and not continue to make idiotic mistakes...hopefully you don't have an STD or are pregnant. One night stands are what they are one night stands...You need to make your own friends and put this behind you don't bring this information into your new relationships...you can just leave it behind. It seems they don't remember anything happening so why should you carry some memory around that only brings you pain. Go to church! Get involved and start a new life!
2006-11-13 22:16:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, stop thinking that all guys are assholes cause its not true. Next time you like some one, dont be so quick to have sex with them because that tells a guy that your easy. Wait a while to see if he really likes you and wants to pursue something with you. Ultimately, woman are the ones who have total control if a guy has sex with them or not. Thats how you weed out the ones who just want sex and the ones who just want you. Also, makes sure your upfront with guys and tell them what your intentions are. Forget about the one night stand. Lesson learned.
2006-11-13 22:10:07 · answer #3 · answered by Hal Jordan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's something that you are just going to have to get over. It sounds as if he was only interested in sex and no relationship. Next time you like a guy, don't have sex with him right away.
2006-11-13 21:59:19 · answer #4 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, you're going to be ok. There're some good guys left!
2006-11-13 22:11:19 · answer #5 · answered by Sunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone better and flaunt it!! JK, You don't know til it happens. Live and Learn. That's life chica.
2006-11-13 22:00:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldve been smarter.
2006-11-13 21:58:50 · answer #7 · answered by Epidemic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all guys are assholes
2006-11-13 21:59:02 · answer #8 · answered by lost_in_love_still 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋