How do i get my ex boyfriend to stop hating me, i broke up with my boyfriend after about 2 weeks because it just wasnt working out and so i broke up with him. But now he hates me and it saying bad things behind my back. How can i get him to not hate me and be friends with me????
2006-11-13 13:52:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh yeah and i tried talking to him and he just ignores me
2006-11-13 13:55:09 · update #1
tell him that it was nothing personal that you just didn't see a 'spark' between you two. tell him that you cherished your friendship so you decided to leave it at that.
good luck.
2006-11-13 13:55:25 · answer #1 · answered by megan h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first question is were you friends before you were boyfriend and girlfriend? If so, more than likely you will be friends again. He is just hurt because he was wanting the relationship to continue. If he broke up with you how would you feel? There is a process to grieving and healing. It is not right for him to say things behind your back and show his immaturity but it does happen. Don't let it get the better of you because that is what he is trying to do, he wants you to feel what he feels and that is the only way he can do it.
2006-11-13 22:05:33 · answer #2 · answered by MATLOCK 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the problem is, you can't really get him to stop hating you. It takes time. He obviously hasn't taken the break up well, and by bitching behind your back about you, doesn't exactly make him the best guy in the world does it? Just give him space, and time will tell.
2006-11-13 21:56:24 · answer #3 · answered by Nessta_185 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you probably won't. it will be on his own and take time. when my ex broke up with me i hated her for abut a month and then i got over it and started dating someone else. he probably loved u and is very hurt by your actions. now i'm friends with my ex. we talk everyonce in a while although we haven't done anythign together since. he'll proabbly never be the friend u want but after some time he'll stop hating u
2006-11-13 21:55:45 · answer #4 · answered by DA-LL /Male/ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is hurt and this is how a lot of guys deal with being hurt. Just give him some time and some space. After he settles down a bit, try talking to him and tell him that you'd like to be friends.
2006-11-13 21:55:23 · answer #5 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. Just be happy that you found out he was a jerk before marriage and 3.2 kids. You could leave him a note stating you know he is hurting but, bad-mouthing you will not help him. Ask him, "Is the the man you want to be?"
2006-11-13 21:56:36 · answer #6 · answered by ontopofoldsmokie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try talking 2 him and see what happens,.
2006-11-13 21:54:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
appologize.. just be nice to him.. kill him with kindness.. then he doesnt have anything bad to say about you.. that always worked for me
2006-11-13 21:54:36 · answer #8 · answered by smurfettepark 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might take some time.
2006-11-13 22:00:58 · answer #9 · answered by Niceguy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sleep with him lol just joking just forget it because he's immature he's a sore loser
2006-11-13 21:56:22 · answer #10 · answered by FELICIA H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋