I really like a shy guy and I know he likes me back. He has all the attractive qualities that make me like him (personality and looks) and I really enjoy talking to him. He laughs at my sarcasm and jokes and all that good stuff but I can't find that one thing that will allow us to become more than friends. I know that some guys are just "friend" material and there is nothing you can do to change that, but this guy is just too shy to move any farther. He is definately a potential boyfriend but we are just really really good friends. Would it be a good idea to tell him he had really pretty eyes one day or something?? I try to compliment him sometimes by saying stuff like "Looking good handsome" or by laughing at his jokes a lot. I just don't want to go overboard on the compliments and become a complimenting machine to him. He might think that I am just too easy and won't have to work hard at all for me. Guys like a challenge I know. So should I make him jealous? What? Please help
2006-11-13 13:45:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be open with him. have him get to know you and you get to know you, if he gets more comfortable around you then maybe he will open up and ask you out.
don't compliment him too much, make him compliment you.
thats what i would try but you dont have to...
2006-11-13 13:49:20 · answer #1 · answered by megan h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok... this might sound a little weird but as a guy and depending on your age and looks, completely and totaly seduce him, like if ur a t a dance ask him and convince him 2 dance with u, im shy 2 but u just gotta insist, once u dance with him 4 a few song he'll get more confidence so start to dance really close and (if hes taller than u) lean the side of ur head against him and hold him close and tight. if ur lookin 4 non-romantic stuff, just go up and start grindin with him, either way its easy 2 get a straight guy 2 like u.
2006-11-13 13:50:56 · answer #2 · answered by squashburn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a shy guy or at lest i used to be shy really shy you can tell him that your into him and want to go out on date with him that doesnt mean you should give it up to him though you may have to kiss him first to let him know its OK to be that way with you and yes you do have to make him work for it at least a little show some restraint when making out let him know where you stand let him relax with you and you wont be able to get him to shut up
2006-11-13 13:51:51 · answer #3 · answered by <B> 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to make the first move. And don't compliment him too much, wait actually if he likes you I guess its okay. But really you have to make the first move, its the only way! I use to be shy, and there was no way in hell i was gonna make the first move.
2006-11-13 13:52:12 · answer #4 · answered by red_of_the_lost 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing you can do is tell him you like him and want to get to know him in a more romantic way. Guys like honesty, and even if he is not interested he will take it as a compliment (as it is )
2006-11-13 13:48:30 · answer #5 · answered by tigweldkat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not try to make him jealous... that will backfire on you.
Take charge of the situation. Tell him your real feelings.... if your feeling really risky, surprise kiss him one day if you want... just go for it. See what happens.
2006-11-13 13:50:13 · answer #6 · answered by Ashley P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont try to make him jealous, shy guys just get intimidated, they think they dont have a chance with you, so just let it unfold, make sure he knows you like him and no one else
2006-11-13 13:52:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your going have to take charge and tell him how u feel about him dont try to make him jealous it will just push him away
2006-11-13 13:51:01 · answer #8 · answered by johneonykk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no dont make him jealous. just ask him out on a date, to see if hes really intersted, maybe hes not, thats why u should ask him out.
2006-11-13 13:50:16 · answer #9 · answered by z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to get him alone one day. talk to him and tell im how you feel and see how he responds. guys are vulnerable if they're not with their friends. talking alone is the best approach.
2006-11-13 13:51:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋