I know I don't need to be here, but love won't let me go. How can I be strong enough to do what I needed to do for five years? I just feel like I can't be without him. But I don't know how to be with out him. I need advice.
2006-11-13 13:41:48 · 9 answers · asked by virginia b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't need to be here but love won't let me leave. He has cheated for four of the six years we have been together. He has been faithful that i know of for two years but I just reently caught him talking and sneaking around to call his ex. How do you make the pain go away so you can be strong enough to just say good-bye for good?
2006-11-13 14:23:38 · update #1
Text message him. It worked for Britney and K-fed.
2006-11-13 13:45:20 · answer #1 · answered by eddysmomma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-22 01:15:44 · answer #2 · answered by gaidos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just did this exact thing in february. What are your reasons for wanting to leave? I planned ahead for months (packed important things in storage, changed bank information, etc) before. Are you afraid to leave? I was, so I ended up leaving while he was at work. Do you have friends to help you pack? I guess it depends on the reasons why you want to leave...
2006-11-13 13:45:46 · answer #3 · answered by Jay Jay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound confused.if you dont love him enough to get married and be with him forever.. then you need to leave.. your just hurting him as well as yourself.. you might find that you will miss him and come back to him.. but you do need to leave and figure out what it is that you want. You can handle being without him . take it from me.. i just had problems with my b/f and he was where you are... he didnt know what he wanted... so we parted and when our seprate ways.. i thought that i wouldnt be able to live with out him... but i can just surround yourself with lots of friends and family.. they will help you get thru it. Just be honest with him.. the truth hurts.. but it is the best way to do it. he will respect you for telling the truth..
it will take time to get over the pain.. but you will
2006-11-13 13:48:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you leaving him? The best way to do it is to just be honest with him. Do you have a real reason for leaving him? Have you talked to him about it at all?
2006-11-13 13:45:40 · answer #5 · answered by Jim V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are sure that you have to leave him, and you have a good reason, then tell him the truth. Be straight with him. If you love him, tell him the truth.
2006-11-13 13:48:23 · answer #6 · answered by Nathan W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him u need to find out who u really are without him. say you rather be on your own. the relationship isn't going where you expect it to go. tell him you dont have any feelings for him you've grown apart. tell him hes boring.
2006-11-13 13:47:02 · answer #7 · answered by z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave and live on.It gets easier everyday.
2006-11-13 13:44:04 · answer #8 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u love him that much, maybe u should not leave him.
2006-11-13 13:45:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋