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Well alot of people say that you cant find out what true love is or fall in love until your 18 and up. I just wanna know what your opinions are on this and do you think people could fall in love before then? im just curious

2006-11-13 13:40:08 · 14 answers · asked by Questions ^_^ 3 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

Do you think people younger can actually fall in love or is it just puppy love?

2006-11-13 13:44:46 · update #1

Thank you everyone ^-^
You all have given such great answers ^-^

2006-11-14 14:18:51 · update #2

14 answers

As we grow older our values and beliefs change. If you fall in love with someone at a young age and the grow and mature in the same ways as you do, yes I believe you can fall in love and stay in love. Love grows over time, and gets stronger and stronger. To answer your question yes I believe you can love another at any age in a variety of different capacities.

2006-11-13 13:43:28 · answer #1 · answered by Deirdre O 7 · 0 0

You can fall in love as early as 14. It really depends on how mature you are. Age is quire irrelavent in the teens. When I was 12 they told me I was like a 7 year old. Now I'm 16 and they tell me I'm like a 24 year old. You find love and many life's answers through experiences, and some people have more experiences in a shorter period of time than others do. =/

well thats what i think

2006-11-13 13:46:24 · answer #2 · answered by red_of_the_lost 2 · 0 0

Well I thought I was in love many times prior to being 18 and actually got married for the first time at that age. Well that marriage lasted exactly two years and then ended bitterly. Thank goodness we have grown into adults and are actually friends today and visit our son and grandchildren often at same time. I get along quite well with he new man and she with my new fiance. But another friend of mine married at age 18 also and out of all the people that hung around together back then he is the only one still with his wife, so it is very possible. A lot has to do on maturity level, lifestyle (booze and drugs don't make you mature but spoil your lifestyle), commitment and ability to communicate. Hope that you found this useful to look at both sides of the coin.

2006-11-13 13:46:09 · answer #3 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0 0

Well- generally speaking there are a lot of teenagers in love- or at least they think so- and they are not old enough to drive, work, rent a home or provide for someone else-I would think it would be best not to fall in live until you are ready to get married- then you don't have a list of past relationships attached to you- that follow you around- D

2006-11-13 13:45:27 · answer #4 · answered by Debby B 6 · 0 0

I believe young people can find love because as a young person I've fallen in love. I love my bf, I started going with him at 15 and now I'm about to turn 17 and we're still together. He tells me he loves me daily and he isn't in a rush for sex, he just wants us to understand love more and to understand each other. We truly love each other dearly and we're both under 18. Many of my friends have fallen in love at young ages. My neighbors fell in love when they were 12 in Puerto Rico and now they're in they're late 20s and have been married since they were 19. They are so in love.
Everyone's relationship varies with maturity and understanding.

2006-11-13 14:05:31 · answer #5 · answered by Angelbub 4 · 0 0

Any person can experience love at any age. But as you grow older and more experienced you'll learn how to interpret your emotions. What you think is love at 13 is nothing like what love is when your 20. When you are younger you feel more adoration than anything else.

2006-11-13 13:45:44 · answer #6 · answered by MakeBelieve. All you want. 4 · 0 0

i dont think youre incapable of loving before 18, however it definately depends on the individual, i think the reasoning behind it is that many many teenager have an infatuation or think they are in love with some one when they are really not, but who can really define love, ya know? its something you feel inside its not some thing you can say well, shes not really in loive, she just thinks she is, because no one else truely knows but the person experiencing it.. and if they've never experienced it before, someone may confuse infatuation with love, especially teenager if it is their first time 'falling in love"

2006-11-13 13:42:10 · answer #7 · answered by tauruszodiacfreak 3 · 0 0

Of course people can fall in love at any age. being in love has lots of responsibilities...and maturity is required to properly handle their state of love. Not having this maturity is what causes young people to make huge mistakes.

2006-11-13 13:47:28 · answer #8 · answered by obsnowman2000 s 1 · 0 0

There are no rules to falling in love...but the more you love, the more you understand what love is and the more you fall in love...so time does play a factor in it...

2006-11-13 14:11:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I think it's true, because when I fell in love at an early age, I thought maybe he's the one for me, but now when I look back, I laugh at myself back then for thinking I fell for the right guy.

I am married to the most wonderful guy now, and I know he's the right one for me, because I want to be with him for the rest of my life. And I know he's the right one for me because I started dating him when I was 21 and know what I want in a guy who I want to spend the rest of my life with.

2006-11-13 13:44:31 · answer #10 · answered by superboredom 6 · 0 0

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