2006-11-13 13:36:34 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't expect them to do that. I expect them to let me pay my share and shut the hell up.
2006-11-13 15:52:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been w/ guys who expect me to pay all the time because I offered the first time, then they've expected me to pay all the time , even when they have invited me and even when they've invited other people. Some of these guys pay child support and whatnot and claim to not have much so I pay. But I have a family too and am tired of being treated in this way so now I am not so quick to offer so they know right off that I am not going to be the sugar mama.
2006-11-13 13:45:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
becuase some women think its gentleman like for a men to pay,eventhough,all women dont expect guys to pay for everything when they go out but if a guy does pay it shows they're capable of being a gentlemen.
2006-11-13 13:41:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a woman and I've never figured that out.
Maybe because a long time ago men made more money then woman...but now it's about equal and I think the woman should pay sometimes and the guy pays sometimes.
2006-11-13 13:39:18 · answer #4 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not true of all women. I believe in being equals in a relationship. The guy can pick it up one time....then the girl the next....or just pay for yourself.
2006-11-13 13:40:32 · answer #5 · answered by charmedbyleo32 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't expect the guy to pay for everything. but i DO expect him to pay when he asks me out. HE invites ME out then HE needs to be the host and pay. When i ask him out then I"LL pay.
2006-11-13 13:38:43 · answer #6 · answered by sweetsourchikin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all women do, when i go out with a guy i insist on paying for myself.
2006-11-13 13:38:23 · answer #7 · answered by Ariella 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, we don't. We expect whoever asked who out should pay but generally the dude always pay for the first date. You just run into gold-diggers that's all. =)
2006-11-13 13:38:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's just a really old ritual that started because women used to rely on men for money. Personally, I'd rather pay for myself.
2006-11-13 13:39:30 · answer #9 · answered by redpillowcase 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
maybe there gold diggers or maybe it isn't the girl at all...maybe the guys feels that it is his job to pay for everything...some girls are taught that if the guy is really a gentlemen then he'll pay for everything...maybe the guy was taught that he is suppose to pay for everything...personally i don't feel comfortable with the guy paying for everything because it makes me feel like im taking advantage of him and it makes me feel powerless and useless...
2006-11-13 13:45:01 · answer #10 · answered by Blue Diamond 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋