One friend invited me to her part and another invited me to hers they invited me about the same time and I don't remember who invited me first but one will get very angry and the other will get mad but not show it I'm so stuck in the middle I have NO idea what to do but I don't want to hurt either ones feelings some one please HELP ME !!
2006-11-13 13:35:52 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
things to consider:
1) closest to you in terms of your friendship
2) convenience
3) who prepares better food
4) which party you would enjoy the most
2006-11-13 13:40:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend a couple of hours at the party you would enjoy least, then head over to the other for the rest of the night.
A friend of mine just got invited to a 21st, an engagement party and a just for fun party all on the sme night and he didn't even finish work till eight! He simply changed quickly and put in an appearance at all three.
There is nothing wrong with doing this.
2006-11-14 03:52:19 · answer #2 · answered by ilovealandofcontrasts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to both. stop by the one first party and stay for 1-2 hrs. Let them know you also got invited to another party that you must stopped by as well. Let the 2nd party know that you will arrive late. Tell them you were invited to a party at a earlier time. This way both parties will be happy that you can attend both.
2006-11-14 00:33:51 · answer #3 · answered by uniqaznmeg 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is hard to answer,you could ask one of them to move there time or day but that would be rude.Also you could go to the girl who you like better but that would be mean and rude.Oh my gosh I just came with 2 brillent things 1.ask them how long it well proberly go for and them stay at one for half of the time and another for half.2 Talk to them at the same time and explain whats going on and your not sure whos to go to and if you dicide to go to one and your other friend gets mad and say your never going to be friends again then she never was not a friend from the start.AndLike I totally wish you good luck!
2006-11-13 21:49:48 · answer #4 · answered by dannie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Decide which one you think is more important, and which one will mean more to the person if u go. I mean like, if the first girl has like 30 people going to her party but the second one only has like 5, it should mean more the second girl if u go to her party than the first...
if all else fails, flip a coin ;)
2006-11-13 21:40:34 · answer #5 · answered by Tim 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make appearances at both parties. Spend 45 minutes to an hour at each.
2006-11-13 22:32:01 · answer #6 · answered by ValleyViolet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could say that you like both of them and it would be hard to be at two parties at the same time. Ask them if there is any way that they could combine their parties at the same place and it will be double the fun.
2006-11-13 21:39:37 · answer #7 · answered by Blessed 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to both parties. If you can't, then I think you should find an excuse not to go to the parties (say you're feeling sick for example and not up to partying) and skip them both. If you go to one and not the other then the one whose party you didn't go to will be mad.
2006-11-14 02:33:55 · answer #8 · answered by undir 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well one invitation HAD to come 1st. But since you have selective memory maybe it's because you are unsure what you would rather do. Go to both.
2006-11-14 08:51:53 · answer #9 · answered by tamara.knsley@sbcglobal.net 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to both parties. spend a little time at each one or don't go to either party and make up an excuse to stay home.
2006-11-13 22:05:00 · answer #10 · answered by party_pam 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋