I'm South Asian (indian) and I've fallen for a Caucasian guy. We're both 15 but I'm not sure how my parents would react to any non Indian no matter how old I am. We're both Christian so It's not a question of religion- but cultural differences. Would he even like me? Do Caucasian guys ever really think of Indian girls like that?
2006-11-13 13:35:22 · 8 answers · asked by ash 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yr only 15 .. study plz
2006-11-13 13:37:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm indian too. All I can say is you have to ask how your parents would feel if you ended up with someone Caucasain. DO NOT say you are interested in someone, just ask general "what if" question to them. See how they react to that, and you'll know. Also, how do you parents feel about you dating?? I had strict indian parents, they would not let me have an indian boyfriend till I was 18, and they had to give me that freedom because I was moving out to college. The thing is, be careful of what you do now, you are still only 15, if you break your parents trust now, it might make the future so much harder, and the guy might not be worth it. I made sure to be the "good girl" in highschool and respect my parents wishes, and in return they let me move out at 18 because they trusted me. If they didnt, they would have made me stay at home and go to the local college.
Everything you do now can impact the future. Figure out what your parents first, whether they can deal or not and work from there.
As for the guy liking you, I've had to deal with a lot of prejedice in my life, a lot of Caucasian guys have the complete wrong idea about indian culture, you know how many times they've asked me about "karma sutra" so I'd also be careful about that. However having said that, there are ofcourse good ones that dont care about that stuff, and they will like you for you.
2006-11-17 00:46:33 · answer #2 · answered by twinkle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are both Christians, and that's the most important thing in any relationship! your parents and his parents should be happy!
and why wouldn't this guy think of you as a girlfriend? I think Indian women are some of the most beautiful women in the world, and I bet you are beautiful too!
as far as cultural differences, I think it would be fun for both of you to learn about each others cultures.
just ask your parents to give you both a chance!
I will keep you in my prayers.
2006-11-13 22:10:22 · answer #3 · answered by atiana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he likes you, he will likes you. Try to solve one problem at a time. Is he your bf? or is it one-sided love? If he likes you, then solve problem about your family. I can understand why your parents will not be very happy with the relationship. It's not because of you are Indian and he's white. It's your age. They love you and don't want you to get hurt because of young, might-be-irresposible boy, ok?
2006-11-13 21:44:15 · answer #4 · answered by Sunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find something you have in common, find out what he likes, show him you good side and just be yourself. If he is really is interested he won't mind what culture your from and if he does hes not the 1 4 u!
2006-11-13 21:39:49 · answer #5 · answered by madkat_419 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why wouldn't he? My boyfriend and I are of different religions. I'm born in American with decendants of the Caribbean and he's born in England with Caribbean decendants too. Does that stop me from loving him? Hell no!!!!!! I love him like no other and he loves me unconditionally. If you like the boy, take your relationship further. Race shouldn't matter when you love someone.
2006-11-13 21:41:51 · answer #6 · answered by Angelbub 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are female and look good - he should be interested- if he is like any other male- unless he is a bigoted jerk- so- culture even varies from house to house- D
2006-11-13 21:39:13 · answer #7 · answered by Debby B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please dont ask questions u allready know if u realy belive in the history of the human race an indian and a white person never got to gether to form a deep realtionship ur an ididot
2006-11-13 21:37:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋