The man I have been seing for 4 months cheated on me last month then had me fired from my job He continues to see the woman he cheated on me with. I see him at least once a week just because the sex is great. I have been asked out to dinner by another man & I told hm this & now he is all upset. He says that it would be over between us if I go. I don't think that is fair for him to ask that of me. To me it has been over the minute he cheated. But I have been talking to someone else I just look at him as a sex buddy. What is the right thing to do?
2006-11-13 13:34:29 · 21 answers · asked by liz7768 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes I did say my HUSBAND cheated on me, that is because he moved in with me a month after I was seeing him so I had considered him my husband at the time because he had asked me to marry him. But I am leagally SINGLE.
2006-11-13 13:44:03 · update #1
Yes I did say my HUSBAND cheated on me, that is because he moved in with me a month after I was seeing him so I had considered him my husband at the time because he had asked me to marry him. But I am leagally SINGLE.
2006-11-13 13:44:04 · update #2
why are you still with a guy that cheated on you? have you no self respect at all? dump him and find a guy that can treat you well and be faithful
2006-11-13 13:36:34 · answer #1 · answered by tigweldkat 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The question is, do you want a 'sex buddy' or do you want a relationship? If it's the former, then by all means, go ahead and keep screwing the first guy, just try not to think about him screwing anybody else. He sounds like one of them type of guys who just wants all the women for himself. Do you want to be the one and only or the one of many? And this new person you talk to...if you see him, are you going to continue to screw the first guy? How do you think new guy is going to feel about that? Great sex is fine, but don't let that keep you in an otherwise very unhealthy relationship.
Okay...by the way...if he asked you to marry him and you had accepted the proposal...that would make him your fiance NOT your husband!
2006-11-13 21:39:24 · answer #2 · answered by Sunidaze 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Boy.. I dont know what you are doing. Number one rule, once a cheater always a cheater. I learned that a long time ago. Obviously he doesnt care to much to cheat and then go and hang out with the same girl. He has total control over you and he is loving it. He doesnt think you will walk out on him and he will just keep doing this. So you need to stick up for yourself.. and leave him and go do whatever you want and be happy. That 4 months was just a waste of time that you will get over quickly. :-P
2006-11-13 21:39:18 · answer #3 · answered by Jessica D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get away from this scum bag.
Once a cheater, always a cheater.
This man is keeping you as "2nd best" AND he got you fired. He is out for himself and no one else.To hell with that!
Good sex (even phenomenal sex) is not worth the price of your pride, self worth and heart felt emotions.
Go out with the new guy. At least take a chance. You deserve far, far better.
Tell the cheater to find someone else to **** with.
2006-11-13 21:38:44 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to get out of that relationship, if thats what you want to call it. Neither one of you have any respect for ...YOU! Why would you stay with someone that that is having sex elsewhere? Are you that hard up for good sex? Do you know the other woman, if she is having sex with other men? Who else is your BF screwing around with? and what STDs have you been exposed to, but hey great sex, yeah its all worth it.
Get to counselling, get some self-esteem, and learn to love yourself, THEN you may be ready for a real relationship with a real man!
2006-11-13 21:39:12 · answer #5 · answered by I_Love_Life! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave him!!! This shouldn't even be a question that you need to ask. By staying with him, you're letting him have his cake and eat it too. Not to mention, you have know idea what diseases are going around; she could be seeing someone else too. You deserve better and I hope you open your eyes and realize that. You shouldn't settle for half a man. Respect yourself and move on.
2006-11-13 21:57:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you, yourself can answer that question. It seems to me, he not not a very nice guy. If you were not dating anyone else, and just wanted sex from him, that is your business. However, if you were asked out to dinner, by this gentleman......then, first of all I would not have told him..unless you knew him, before he asked you out to dinner.
I would say the right thing to do is Not have sex with that guy anymore.
Who knows, you could have greater sex with someone else.
Be carefully thought..should you have a baby, whoever the man is...will be
part of your life forever.
2006-11-13 21:41:17 · answer #7 · answered by Eve 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I think you're being a bit stupid. Why continue to sleep with him if he treats you like dirt? Come on, you should know your own worth and self respect. Stop seeing the guy altogether, what a jerk! Get on with your life, show you're an independant woman who doesn't need lying, unfaithful slime balls like him. When you show strength, he'll realise how much of a dick he really is. I really think that its best you don't see him at all.
2006-11-13 21:37:21 · answer #8 · answered by Nessta_185 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Faithful? why are you still with him. Don't cheat, that lowers you to his level. Just dump him and find you a real man, not a little boy.
Take the high ground. Get rid of him and take your time to find a right relationship.
And get a restraining order on him, I have a feeling you will need it.
2006-11-13 21:36:48 · answer #9 · answered by Common Sense 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Leave him!!!! He cheats on you constantly and you deserve much better than that! If he gets upset if someone asks you, then he's a huge hypocrite. Drop him and find true happiness else where. I bet you'll be happier and feel better. Forget the sex, the next dude may give it to you better than he ever did. Trust me, you'll feel much better if you leave him.
2006-11-13 21:38:26 · answer #10 · answered by Angelbub 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Two months ago you were asking questions about your husband (according to your asking history), and now you've been seeing someone for 4 months and you have issues about HIM being unfaithful?
To answer your question, you should do nothing. You two deserve each other...
2006-11-13 21:38:05 · answer #11 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋