What do u all think about my situation? My boyfriend's Myspace page claims he's single. I don't talk to him everyday cuz every time I call, he's "busy" and when we do talk, it's only a couple of min. at night and that's it. I hardly see him and when we do hang out, all he wants is for me to come over to his house. He sure seems to have a lot of time for his friends. I've been with him on and off for about 2 years. He claims he's busy with school and work. He works as a bagboy at QFC!!! I don't know what to think anymore...when I try to tell him I feel neglected, he doesn't listen or he'll hang up on me!! I'm really bugged out about him claiming he's "single" when he's not.
2006-11-13 13:32:01 · 21 answers · asked by Anna 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He won't even add me as a friend on mYSpace claiming he has this rule about not having exs or his gf on his friends list!! wtf? He claims it's because he sees how his friends gf's blow up their page but i'm not going to do that so why is he worrying?
2006-11-13 13:45:38 · update #1
set your profile to "single" and see how he likes it
2006-11-13 13:43:43 · answer #1 · answered by Daniel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if his bad communication with you is just neglect (him not making enough time for you in his life) or if it's intentional then that's a whole different story
if he's your boyfriend you should be the 51% majority in his life he should be focused on you 51% of his time at the very least if not more and the fact that he barely talks in any decent length of time to you is a sign of discontent on his part. which me as a guy most guys are discontent with their relationships because of overstimulation by the media and glamorized relationships in the same media = the relationships they truly have aren't the one's they see on tv/internet/where-ever
and when you try to share how you feel with him if he truly even "liked" you he should respond with listening to you and at least trying to change things in order to include you more and your feelings.
and if he's claiming he's single when he's dating you he's to me advertising for a "new catch" or looking for some other girl.
to me overall it sounds like he's not too into you as a person and isn't mature enough to be in a relationship with you let alone any girl for that matter until he matures and starts interacting in his relationships in a way that actually says he's interested
thus actions speak louder than words but the choice is up to you but personally i'd stop dating him and look for a guy who is really interested in you because of who you are as a person not just as a pretty girl,but as a friend who you both can talk to each other about stuff that really does matter and have significance as well as things that are just fun and have no significance at all other than just being together
2006-11-13 21:47:47 · answer #2 · answered by purrplepuddding 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're title to your question says it all.
Okay..after reading your update..you have a right to call this guy a loser. A total loser...but that's why you should know he is not worth your time.
When you find the right guy...you wont have to call him names...you wont have to worry about his "myspace" etc etc...no..it won't be perfect all the time...but in real relationships, people work things out...they don't play games like he is.
Set him free~it'll best for both of you.
2006-11-13 21:37:25 · answer #3 · answered by Shakira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. You deserve so much better. Honey, you deserve someone who's going to love you and let you know it, not hide it and neglect you. I'm so sorry that you lost 2 years of your life to him. I would leave him and try to move on. It won't be long before you find someone that really treats you the way you should be treated.
2006-11-13 21:37:30 · answer #4 · answered by sarah belle 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
this guy sounds like a loser. you should dump him. i think he is sending you signals that he is not interested in maintaining this relationship anymore, he just doesn't know how to come out with it. if he is too busy to talk to you or go out with you, then he he won't be able to give you what you need. it will be difficult, but worth it.
2006-11-13 21:38:00 · answer #5 · answered by cami 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him....I know someone close to me in the same situation...She says the same thing you are saying...They are using you both...Find someone who wants you and only you...These men do this because they can. When you find a healthy relationship you will kick you own self for putting up with this........pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and start all over again.......
2006-11-13 21:37:57 · answer #6 · answered by Brenda Soooooooooooooooooooooooo 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
heres what you do:
find a party to go to with him
get real drunk
take off your clothes and act like an *** in front of everyone
when he trys to take you home throw a big fit and then have sex with the fattest guy at the party
2006-11-13 21:35:57 · answer #7 · answered by benjamin b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like he is single and on my space he is- and if you have to bug him-not good- so why don't you "not have time for him-" if he is single on my space- he is lying- so = you don't need a bf like that- D
2006-11-13 21:36:51 · answer #8 · answered by Debby B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl please, open your eyes. He may be your boyfriend, but you are definately not his girlfriend. Tell him to kick rocks, and find someone who actually respects you and wants to talk to you and spend time with you. Actions speak louder than words, and your just not seeing what he is saying.
2006-11-13 21:35:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well some like to play the game, even when there with somebody....
2006-11-13 21:35:38 · answer #10 · answered by keithr2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋