me and my bf broke up today because he quotes "my sister and my parents dont think we should be together" but get this we been off and on since the 8th grade. we are now juniors in high school. his sister is in the 11th and told one of my friends she didnt like me because i was skinny and ugly. but i never met her before. i only seen her in the hallways at school and once she asked me "do you go with my brother" she actually said it in a rude way and i relpied yes i do. today i got on the bus and broke down. man what should i do move on or solve this.
p.s. his mom works in the school as a substitute some days
2006-11-13 13:28:46 · 8 answers · asked by ♥la chica♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh please dont lose it.
I know your gonna hate this, but move on.
cry all you want, he cant see past the women in his life to understand his relationship then he isnt worth it.
while a true man respects the wishes of his family members, he also thinks autonomously. He isnt a man yet dear. Take some time off relationships and build yourself up to do well in school.
while I think I know why his mom did what she did, its best you just stay away from them.
2006-11-13 13:34:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry if i hurt u,
but i have to say that he is not actually love you that much...
'my family dont think?' or 'he himself don think?'
these kinds of guys can't even overcome some minor problems with you,
just leave him...
hey, his sister doesn't like you juz bcoz she thinks you are skinny and ugly???
that's not right.. it's juz your physical look, something you can't change...
if he rili loves you much,
he will try to overcome this problem together with you,
(not running away with you of course)
he will try to convince his family.
you'll find someone better out there.
someone who don take 'family' as an excuse to break up with you.
i'm experienced.
i know it.
2006-11-13 21:40:42 · answer #2 · answered by CherylMeryl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahhh sweetie...dont worry too much about it. If he broke up because of his family then he's not worth it.
I'm sure there are pleanty of guys that would love to go out with you. ...(start dating other guys, that will make him jealous) and if he really cares about you...you will get back together.
If not... you deserve better than him...Good luck hun.
In regards to his family...Stand up for yourself and be confident. dont let anyone intimidate you. Your better than them if they treat you that way.. Know in your heart that you deserve to be treated with respect!
2006-11-13 21:37:13 · answer #3 · answered by multipure417278 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your bf should stand up for you, but i understand he is in a difficult situation. his sister is a biatch but that doesn't mean you can be rude to her. if you can stand his family not liking you, then stay with him, if you can't then its best you guys take a break. good luck
2006-11-13 21:33:35 · answer #4 · answered by BlueGirl007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just move on, if his family treats you like this, you're gonna have to fight them for a long time. its not worth it. if he really wanted to be with you he wouldnt break up with you in the first place, trust me.
2006-11-13 21:30:55 · answer #5 · answered by sweetsourchikin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares...if you too are happy together thats all that matters. he is just influenced and confused because his family is telling him what to do...give him some time and tell him it doesnt matter what they think
2006-11-13 21:32:22 · answer #6 · answered by shelby p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he agrees w/ his sis and mom, then i say **** 'em. move on w/ yo life. it's his loss.
2006-11-13 21:32:22 · answer #7 · answered by rieshafreeman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like him go for it **** his family if he likes you to mabey he will forget them too
2006-11-13 21:32:01 · answer #8 · answered by ThePlotTacoKiller 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋