I have met someone on-line who I am starting to really fall in love with. We have been chatting on the phone for hrs. at a stretch everynight and are planning to meet soon. I have been so interested in him because he is such a decent and sweet man however when I dream of meeting him, I inevitably end up thinking about what it will be like to kiss him and make love to him. Is this all totally unrealistic... am I setting myself up for disaster.. am I wrong to be thinking this way when he is so decent. His voice and everything... I just don't know what to do...!!
2006-11-13 13:24:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go to a perverts anonimous meeting,
but seriously what you have described is normal.
2006-11-13 13:27:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The man you speak off may or may not be the man of your dreams. So, until you actually meet him in person, your fantansies about this man are harmless. However, it is best to keep your expectations of him to a minimum level. I hope I don't sound contradicting, but my point is that, what you hope he will be like should not turn into what you Expect him to be like. Just be cautious and learn as much about him in person as possible before you truly fall in love with him. Frankly, it's only called love if it works out. And so far...it's working out right? ; )
2006-11-13 13:37:55 · answer #2 · answered by haithere_us 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're setting yourself up for disaster. Get out now while you still can. Don't get hooked.
2006-11-13 13:27:15 · answer #3 · answered by Jim C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you go over those same thoughts repeatedly you need to get to know him better. Then your mind will have a better picture of him and his faults/personality, then it won't be so much of a fantasy.. Please go slow, if you do care about him don't rush into anything.
2006-11-13 13:28:41 · answer #4 · answered by dantheman_028 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see what's wrong with fantasizing about someone you are interested in.
Chill out...you're ok girl.
2006-11-13 13:28:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, that sounds pretty normal to me. dont worry. your not setting yourself up unless u plan on acting on impulse alone lol
2006-11-13 13:26:44 · answer #6 · answered by sh8dybrady120 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may not be as decent as you think watch yourself!
2006-11-13 13:28:05 · answer #7 · answered by inmate3685 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
meet him.... sometimes you just need to put a body to the voice (but I warn you it may backfire you may want him more)
2006-11-13 13:26:49 · answer #8 · answered by tigweldkat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A dirty mind is a terrible thing to waste!!!
2006-11-13 13:27:47 · answer #9 · answered by hey culligan man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not really, most women are hopless romantics
2006-11-13 13:26:46 · answer #10 · answered by bubbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋