friends. The problem is he talked to me about his problems with her constantly. I never ask about her.It hurts me sometimes to hear about him and her but I lisen and try not to be selfish. Why does he talk to me about their problems,knowing that we have feelings for each other. Why
2006-11-13 13:20:11 · 10 answers · asked by covergirl1303 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You agreed to be his friend, but youre acting like a jealous girlfriend. If you cant handle it tell him now.
2006-11-13 13:22:51 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is saying that he doesn't like you, or you are his only close friend and he can only talk to you about her. And if you have feelings for each other why don't you get together? You really should and if disagrees to it then you should tell him to stop telling you about his girlfriend. Also: you are not being selfish he is.
I hate people that aren't kind and i hate people that are too kind, both of them are a pain in the ***. If you are one of these types then start changing cause if you don't then you will get hurt.
2006-11-13 13:24:45 · answer #2 · answered by red_of_the_lost 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because your his friend, you gave him the thumbs up (invisibly) to tell you things like that his comfort level with you is very high he knows how you both feel, no doubt that he does. He's probably just doing that so you know where his relationship stands, so he's telling you that your "space" is being reserved for the future. I don't know that's what i think if you have a problem with it just tell him that you don't wann hear it because it's annoying or something. Just remember never under estimate your opponent (him) try to think how he thinks then you'll understand better!
2006-11-13 13:29:43 · answer #3 · answered by FELICIA H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is still interested in you romantically and he feels by sharing his problems with you that you will realize that this other relationship is not that great. This way he has an opening if either of your status changes. It is also good to have a good guy friend to get the male perspective on issues.
2006-11-13 13:22:59 · answer #4 · answered by Deirdre O 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that he is wanting you to tell him to end it with her but DON'T do it. You never want to be the cause of a relationship to end especially if you want to possibly have something with this guy in the future. I would just be there for him and listen to him. Be his friend and let him decide if it is over.
2006-11-13 13:23:41 · answer #5 · answered by cmsmith114 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you want to be with him. But the thing is you have a boyfriend so you need to worry about him not the other guy. And he has a girlfriend so if he has a problem he needs to go to her not you.
2006-11-13 13:24:42 · answer #6 · answered by EMTGIRL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe since he can relate to you, since you guys have the same feelings for each other, that he puts his trust in you and gets whatever he wants to say out in the open. its a great relief to talk about your problems with someone else, and you're just the person who has to help him out... be there when he really needs you...
2006-11-13 13:23:08 · answer #7 · answered by Jo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe thats why he likes you, bc you understand him. there's no way to know why but you should definitely tell him that this is making you uncomfortable and he should find help elsewhere. this doesn't make you selfish or heartless, but you are a person with feelings too. good luck.
2006-11-13 13:23:38 · answer #8 · answered by BlueGirl007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he wants you to say what you want to say. He wants you to tell him to break it off and date you. You want it also. Go for it and see what happens.
2006-11-13 13:22:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you are his best freind it seems like. give him your true input. thats being a good freind. he looks for you for help and advice
2006-11-13 13:24:06 · answer #10 · answered by shelby p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋