there's something wrong with me, i don't think girl like it when i tried to touch them ( just the arm and around the stomach tho) or they wouldn't feel really comfortable, i can notice when i saw her face.... and i can't help it, i just randomly touch her when i talk to her..... what's the problem?..... and how to fix it when she already scared of me.....
2006-11-13 13:20:00 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are rushing things by touching her before she is ready. Just talk to her and keep your hands to yourself.
2006-11-13 13:22:21 · answer #1 · answered by Robin N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I completely understand what you are feeling. As a guy I don't have pages of advice but from what you said in your description it sounds like you have done absoultely nothing wrong and the girl is getting offended and uncomfortable way too easily. Maybe have a conversastion with her about why this is and what you both can do to make sure that when you touch her it is a time when she wants it or is OK with it and has not had a bad day. I am sorry that she is acting this way and wish you the best of luck in resolving this conflict.
2006-11-13 21:28:36 · answer #2 · answered by leged56 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have self control you know...
If you really want a girl to like you, you're gonna have to go at HER pace. And you CAN control yourself. Because if you really think about it, you want to have more girls like you than girls run away from you and think you're creepy, right? Just think of that if you get tempted to touch a girl. Always remain eye contact for that's mad sexy in guys. And if you just be yourself, without the touchy touchy. So, I suggest just talking to her again and showing her that you won't touch her. Just have a straight conversation and don't touch her. That's it, it's simple as that. Now, just to make your mind think that it's that simple.
2006-11-13 21:24:22 · answer #3 · answered by Meg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It must be dealing with your way of touching..
Don't touch a girl too early, even if just arm and stomach touch..touch them only if you see them ready for it..see the sign..don't be rush. I my self don't like a guy touch me (in arm and stomach department) if I don't really know him (not a close friend)..
It's simple as 1,2,3..try to be nice to her without that part of touching thing..good luck..
2006-11-13 21:35:58 · answer #4 · answered by yanti b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol...come on buddy. You are scaring off the girl here. She is gonna get intimidated by you. Just stop and control yourself. You are like interested in her. Are you feeling horny? Why do you keep touching her though? She can get you into trouble by saying that you are sexually harrassing her. Just next time when you talk to her, don't touch her, period.
2006-11-13 21:23:49 · answer #5 · answered by leazngurl 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stop touching her or shes gonna end up laying you out flat. And I dont mean in a sexual way.
2006-11-13 21:21:57 · answer #6 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
better stop before she kicks you in your nuts. just kidding don't touch her and show her some personal respect. thats what wrong with america now they end up having nasty dieseaes and want everyone to feel sorry for them.
2006-11-13 21:26:39 · answer #7 · answered by Alicia-brandon15 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, girl not like touch! It is creeeeepy! Keep hands off girl arm and stomach!!!
2006-11-13 21:24:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Put your hands in your pockets? Or sit on them? I would sit down with her and apologize for what you did, and tell her you were nervous and didn't realize what you were doing at the time.
2006-11-13 21:24:02 · answer #9 · answered by dantheman_028 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she may have been hurt before and doesn't like to be touched so don't touch and tell her you are sorry you would never want her to be scared
2006-11-13 21:23:10 · answer #10 · answered by taterchips755 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋