told me that I deserve better. I have told him that this guy has me all confused and that I am always worried about where our lovelife is going to end. I told him that it had been a pleasure to have met him, and I did make it clear to him that I love my bf very much. I didn't hear from this friend for a while, but today he called and he kept on with a wonderful conversation. He said that I could tell my bf that I have met him and that he would like to know me more. I am just worried about what my bf is going to think now. This is his friend and he had told me that I would be surprised if I'd meet him. This guy is younger and has a great personality, but that doesn't mean that I am going to go ahead and have an affair with him. The problem is that now he is calling me more and seems more interested than what my bf has ever been. What do I do?
2006-11-13 13:19:58 · 7 answers · asked by Ladyinred 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have had a friend in this same situation..she came to me for help..she told her boy friends friend that she loved her boy friend and had told the friend that she had STRONG feelings for him also. their friendship became BIGGER AND BIGGER. the only problem was that she didn't wanna break her boy friends heart..her boy friend was cute,nice,sensitive,and very good at all things. the problem with meeting new people and liking them while being with somebody..is that you turn out to love the new friend more than your boy friend..
i say loose the boy friend, and try something new.
BUT PLEASE BE SURE TO STAY FRIENDS WITH BOTH OF THEM EITHER WAY!
good luck Hun
2006-11-13 13:29:03 · answer #1 · answered by brittney<3. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say this person is a "friend" of your boy friend. How long have you been going with this boyfriend? You have not been introduced to the friends of your boy friend? Oh, I get it, you are one of those people that use the word "friend" very loosely. Do you likewise use the term "love" loosely. What is wrong with people continuing to date instead of declaring someone a boyfriend after a couple of dates. If you would have done that you would not be in this situation. I find it amusing that you say he is a friend of your boyfriend and he is telling you "I deserve better" that is some friend. I am thankful I do not have friends like you people. You call yourself a girlfriend and you are sharing your relationship problems with his so called friend whom you do not even know. You two may have a sex-life but a "love"-life I doubt it.
2006-11-13 13:36:25 · answer #2 · answered by tom1941 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this other guy picked a vibe from you that you are not happy with your bf. So he has dreamt up some fantsy that your in love with him and he feels the same. You sound like you really like your bf and you really dont want to give this other guy the wrong idea.With the calling thing good chances (the fact that he knows your bf) he knows that ur bf isnt that type of guy that your bf apprieates the fact he doesnt have to say i love you all the time because he knows that you already know he does. This other is dangerous to your relationship.Follow your heart it can only lead you to what s best for you and please please please stay true to yourself
2006-11-13 13:35:53 · answer #3 · answered by dilemma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this 'friend' is a snake. avoid him. have some respect to your bf. but i believe that you are not very happy with your bf. in that case, move on!
2006-11-13 13:25:11 · answer #4 · answered by mr_dark_eyed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell your boyfriend that you met his friend, and that he's been calling you a lot, and you want him to stop calling you. Let your boyfriend deal with him.
2006-11-13 13:22:39 · answer #5 · answered by superboredom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...thats tuff...but honestly you should tell your b/f...I mean if he was a REALL b/f he would totally understand...GOOD LUCK
2006-11-13 13:23:39 · answer #6 · answered by *Breath* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
meet him and c who u ike better....
2006-11-13 13:24:08 · answer #7 · answered by bubbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋