Help My Girlfriend found out I'm not a virgin an she is P.O.?

Question

Someone told her I wasen't a virgin and she is very angry I think she might dump me because I lied.

Answer 1

well just tell her yo cant change that your not virgin and that she is the only wun u love

Answer 2

Tell her the past is the past and one shouldn't be judged on acts committed at a time that seemed right. It's over. What is important is what you two have together now. Some things are best left alone and unsaid. She needs to grow up and realize people are not going to fit in her idea of right and wrong. Accept people the way they are. Most of us are doing the best we can from what we know. That goes for the past also. Good luck. If it doesn't work out, remember there are women out there that understand. Time to leave little girls alone.

Answer 3

Well you should have never lied to begin with. If you liked her in the first place then you should have told her to begin with instead of starting the relationship with a lie. You need to tell her that you was scared what she would think of you if you told her the truth so that is why you lied.

Answer 4

It shouldn't matter if you're a virgin or not, if she loves you. She's probably angry that you lied, not to mention that she might be afraid you have an STD. Apologize to her. If you did have unprotected sex with someone else I suggest you get tested just in case.

Answer 5

sit her down and tell her the truth.admit to her that u lied and tell her why u did. there is nothing wrong in being a non virgin, what is wrong is lying about it.
and wen u explain it to her, don't be defensive or anything like that but be honest and tell her everything. remember that its's the present that matters and that the two of u are in it ryt now.
nothing can save your relationship ryt now but understanding and acceptance. and that's up to ur gf.
a sincere and honest apology can cover up years of self deception and lies.
good luck!

Answer 6

why did you lie in the first place? when a person lies, he is really saying he doesn't respect his partner. but now that you have lied, perhaps explain to her why you lie... even if she doesn't accept your answer, you must still have to face the consequence but at least now she knows and you have told her. tell her it was a huge mistake and you apologize for not respecting her. ask her to give you another chance bc you will never do this again. and that everyone deserves a second chance. good luck and don't lie.

Answer 7

She proably will. Next time you might want to remember that lying isnt the best idea but if you come clean and ask for forgiveness she'll probaly forgive you, espeacailly if she really liked you to begin with.

Answer 8

Why did you lie to her or lead her to believe you were a virgin in the first place? If you can't be honest with the person you're with, then you shouldn't be with them.

Answer 9

Honesty's the best policy. Just tell her the truth & be honest about why you lied in the first place. (ie: I really like you & didn't want that to put you off, etc..)

Answer 10

Lying is enough to get dumped-you can tell her the truth from here on out - and tell her you were ashamed- if you were ashamed- and see where it goes- D

Answer 11

ya starting off a relationship with lying isnt the way to go... tell her that you are very sorry and show her that you are... then never tell her a lie again... maybe youll be able to work things out.. and if not... then she wasnt for you to begin with.