umm...if you find out that someone is like crazy about you and i mean like obsessed...and you don;t like them back.....what do u do....ignore them?
2006-11-13 13:00:35 · 8 answers · asked by curious 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we haven't talked but i found out from someone else....and his scared to talk to me....he hasn't confronted me yet....thanks in advance for the answers....cuz its moments like these were u are truly confused.....i mean i feel sympathetic towards him....
2006-11-13 13:13:42 · update #1
no no no. don't ignore them. that is the worst thing you can do. cause then you will hurt them and you will be the ***. just tell them..."You know your reallly great and stuff...but i just don't feel that way about you." Just let them down easy. Good luck.
2006-11-13 13:08:49 · answer #1 · answered by Morgasmn! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you need to be blunt with the person and tell him or her that if they do not leave you alone, you will report harassment to the police. It's the only thing to do. Warn them, I mean. And DO report it if they don't stop after the warning. First, because if a person is that out of control, the authorities need to deal with him or her. Secondly, if you threaten to report and then do not do so, your credibility is gone. Then you are in serious danger.
2006-11-13 13:04:22 · answer #2 · answered by auntb93again 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably laying out the facts and not being afraid of telling the truth - if he becomes a menace, contact the authorities!
2006-11-13 13:02:54 · answer #3 · answered by Gabaos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah definitley distance your self from them and make it clear from the start you are not interested in them.
2006-11-13 13:02:53 · answer #4 · answered by Tasha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you havent already made it obviously clear that you are not interested, then tell them in a more clearer way. if that still doesnt work, maybe you need a restraining order???
2006-11-13 13:04:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you let them know because you don't want to waste his time. and 10 years from now he will want to have you let him know you are not wasting his time. the big problem is how to let him know... there's really no easy way to let him know except for a "i am not into you." but let him know you want to be friends and that you do care about him as friends.
2006-11-13 13:04:00 · answer #6 · answered by BlueGirl007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats the same thing wit me...i try not to be mean and just ignore them i guess.
2006-11-13 13:03:30 · answer #7 · answered by mizz_blond_ee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just pretend they do not exist
2006-11-13 13:02:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋