But I hurt him so he broke up with me. I would do anything in the world to get him back. But he can barley even look at me. I have tried explaining things to him. He says he doesn't care. But i know he still does. I want him back. What do i do?! HELP!
2006-11-13 12:51:58 · 19 answers · asked by Morgasmn! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you really think he cares? Depending on what You've done to wrong him there may be no hope. He may still care for you but feel as if he can't trust you and if that is the case let it go, because even if you were able to make it up to him he'll never forget what happened and you don't want an unhealthy relationship that lacks trust! I say move on! Desperate never looks good on a woman. When you move on, accept responsibility for waht you've done to him and exhibit that you're comfortable with yourself and the situation, I'd bet he'll want you back and if not you would've gained so much more and that sort of glow will attract the perfect man to you and you can start all over again
2006-11-13 13:00:45 · answer #1 · answered by Monique L 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he won't take you back, you're just going to have to move on. Try your luck next time!
Seriously, the only way you can be with someone is if they want to, and it doesn't seem like that is working for you. Even if you manage to get him back by some extreme measure, it doesn't sound like your relationship will be very healthy.
Rather than stressing over this guy, try to find things that you enjoy--live your own life and develop yourself. It will be a great experience for you.
2006-11-13 20:58:12 · answer #2 · answered by يا حسين 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say if this break up just occurred, give him time to soak it all in. because, you calling him and texting him and just not letting him have some time alone, will make it worse. at this point, try to think about putting yourself in his position. within a couple weeks, call him and say you'd like to talk. if he still refuses, then just respect it and try again with a text or an e-mail. just whatever you do, give it time. don't push it. good luck! i know how it feels to love an ex so much it hurts but, space is really what is needed.
2006-11-13 20:56:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you haven't said what you did or how long it's been.
My suggestion..... tell him to take some time...say a month... and you won't have any contact with him. Plan a date you will both meet or talk and see if he's still ready to part company. Be prepared (based on what you did)- for him to do just that. But, you may find after a month, your ready to move on too.
2006-11-13 20:54:41 · answer #4 · answered by Mommyk232 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him some space to let the hurt heal a bit, then try contacting him again with letters, flowers and other expressions of your love.
2006-11-13 20:55:53 · answer #5 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Face the fact that you hurt him and just move on with your life, even if you get him back he will never fully trust you and the relationship will never work anyways so whats the point of it....
2006-11-13 20:55:27 · answer #6 · answered by sexton 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write him a note about how you feel and explain things too. he might actually read it since he doesn't have to here it right from your mouth and into his ears. at the end just say that you hope he will forgive you and to think about what you wrote. then wait about a week and if things get better, ask him out again.
2006-11-13 20:55:21 · answer #7 · answered by live_life_nice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do something sweet for him, or let him get some space and time. he might be still hurt, so try cheering him up. if its not the same, start out as friends & grow from there.
GL
2006-11-13 20:54:34 · answer #8 · answered by Wonder Woman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn ! it was ur fault!? tsk! seems like its hard to win him back again. ugh! jst dont stick around him for a moment. he myt stil be irritated to see u. dont even talk to him nor look at him. as if u doesnt exist in his world and u doesnt exist in his world. just do something good around u, impress others, and he may notice and pay his attention with u again. just be patient. let him be the one to notice u at this time...
2006-11-13 20:57:53 · answer #9 · answered by liez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No problem babe, Master Class has got you covered. Go up to your ex and get in his face and say 'I'm so sorry for hurting you, retard. Take me back and I'll make it up to you ten times!'
2006-11-13 20:54:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋