Im not sure why...but i just shy around my bf..and i hate that..
And The thing is...
Im in 7th grade...
And everyone around there is always making out and crap *at school* and holdin on each other...
And im not like that...
Yea i hug him and stuff...But im just scared.
And he;s in 8th and im afraid he;ll dump me cause wat his friends say...*some of his friends rock.* but noo not alll
please help
♥Hopeless
2006-11-13 12:45:12 · 15 answers · asked by Lovely[lauren] 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In 7th grade I had a Girlfriend and we would hold hands and hug almost everywhere. I mean you can buy sex but not LOVE. Love is a powerful thing. Love is pretty much what keeps the world going. If there was no love, no one would have babies and grow up to be adults as dads and moms. All I am saying is you shouldnt be scared. If some one says look at her... then you say well yeh he is my boyfriend do you have one? And that girl will completely get out of mind and have only ... to say.
2006-11-13 12:54:26 · answer #1 · answered by Alex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have very big opinions on this sort of thing. Most people at my school, in my grade, which is 8th, have boyfriends in a higher grade. Personally, at your age, I think it is ridiculous. And for one thing, if you are too shy, then forget it. You're obviously not ready whether he's in 8th grade or not. And if he can't accept that you're not ready to make-out at school, then he doesn't deserve you and if he dumps you-his loss, right? People your age, and mine, should NOT be having relationships, okay?
-Emilie (hope it helped.)
I give my full, honest, and sometimes blunt answers. Like it or not, it's true.
2006-11-13 12:49:51 · answer #2 · answered by Emirii 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Helloooo! I'm in 9th grade and I had my first bf in 8th grade. Do not worry, do not try and change yourself. Trust me, lust can reuin a relationship and fill it with regrets. 7th grade is to young to be pressured into things like that. If he really loves you, he would be with you, whether you make out or not. I'm on my third boyfriend. We only give pecks on the cheeks, hug, hold hands, cuddle, and mostly laugh all the time and I woundnt change it for the world.
If you're not like that, he needs to respect that.
Good luck you two!!!
2006-11-13 12:49:34 · answer #3 · answered by Amy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just know, I was in the 8th grade too... boy I dated, pretty sure I dont talk to him anymore. I wasnt like that either. DO NOT feel pressured to do anything, maybe he likes that about you. If you REALLY like him, maybe when youre hugging him put your head against his, it'll hint a Kiss on the Cheek. Nothing more that that though sweetie.
2006-11-13 12:51:30 · answer #4 · answered by Audrey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that ***** dumps you than f*uck him!!
Look, you are in seventh grade, if everyone around you wants to be little sluts, LET THEM!!! If you arent into that...more power to you! Let your bf know that you don't want to move that fast. If he dosnt agree and pressures you into doing things you dont feel ready to do, you can dump him. Tell him maybe (BIG MAYBE) oneday you would consider it, but at this moment the answer is no.
Dont rush your life away. Good luck.
<3 Demonata ;)
2006-11-13 12:49:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK Sweet, So just because you don't put out, you panic?! Be Proud that you are different in a good way, and not pregnant by the time you done with high school.They love you more if you make them wait.And if he do-sent than he only wanted that from you in the first place!!!!!
2006-11-13 12:51:26 · answer #6 · answered by cece 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey plzz.. you have the right idea its alright to hug and cuddle but for the love of jesus dont fall through peer preasure get your education boys will be in thi lis world after you get your degrees. like i tell my daughter boys like pussy after schooland if its something he truly wants and care for he will wait if not then thank your lord cause he was only trying to tear down your temple my daughter is 19 and finish school and starts college in january now she can f@ck out both draw legs my boys wasnt nothin wrong with them havin sex at age 2 as long as they wore condoms. what im saying is boys are never labeled but girls her so hold on to your temple until your ready to tear it down let them call you virgin mary but thats cool cause you will still have dignity and self respect
2006-11-13 12:59:15 · answer #7 · answered by Darnella C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it.
In 7th grade you shouldn't be doing anything but hugging.
The girls who are doing other stuff will pay for it in the end. Don't stoop down to that level.
2006-11-13 12:47:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just do what feels right and do what comes naturally. If he breaks up with you because you don't want to do something then you really had no chance with him anyways and you would be able to do so much better!
2006-11-13 12:47:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u should for get about the losers at your school and do what u think is right no matter what people do or think or say. jesus cares.pray and he will help u 2.
2006-11-13 12:48:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋