three years ago i started to cut and about two months ago i stopped..two days ago i went to a party though and some one called me fat and ugly (i have really big self confidance issues) when i came home that night i cut worse than i ever had before..i just wanted to know if it was really worth trying to stop again
2006-11-13 11:57:14 · 12 answers · asked by Katelyn 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
sweetheart, you are worth so much more than you think you are.
this cutting is self mutilation and punishment to yourself that you do not deserve. someone else was being mean and stupid. that's their fault. it is not your fault! and you are a very important person, and you have to stop cutting. this just breaks my heart.
please don't let the ignorant comments of an obvious jerk cause you to start destroying your body again.
God loves you, and I know that for a fact. now you have to start loving yourself. I know you can do it.
I will keep you in my prayers.
2006-11-13 12:37:39 · answer #1 · answered by atiana 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Oh sweetie - i am so sorry tp hear that they said that to you. You are self-mutilating just like many other girls do. You are (like you said) suffering from low-self confidence and probably low self image - been there done that. You may even have a chemical imbalance in your brain making you do these things. I cut myself on and off for about 3 or 4 years before I realized it was due to depression. Once I cleared up the depression - and it took a while - I didnt have the urge to cut anymore. Not saying you are depressed or diagnose you - but I think it is something you do need to talk to your doctor about. Or go to your guidance counsellor, and ask them for help. Better yet - go to your parents - they may not have done the same thing but they have been through a lot and can probably help.
Good luck! And keep your face to the sun
2006-11-13 20:09:44 · answer #2 · answered by gaiagurl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi i cut to well late is great that you stopped well it is worth stopping i have stop for about 3 months and just last night i cut again so try and if you can't and you need some one to talk to her is my email address jessyjessyjensen@yahoo.com.au
hope to see you soon
2006-11-13 21:26:58 · answer #3 · answered by jessica j 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, it's always worth trying to stop. Cutting is addictive, and stopping is hard. I don't think I've ever met anyone who just quit one day without a single relapse. I can't even tell you how many times I've told myself that last night would be the last time I cut. Don't give up trying to quit just because you slipped up once. Don't give up even if you slip up a hundred more times. Just don't give up.
2006-11-13 20:05:53 · answer #4 · answered by EmilyRose 7 · 1⤊ 3⤋
If it is a really hurts your self confidents do something about it. cutting yourself is for people that can't deal with ever day life situations. I say go to a gym and loose some weight and it'll help your self confidents
2006-11-13 21:39:20 · answer #5 · answered by Mysterious 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋
hi hun. iv got a friend who cuts sheys realy beatyfull so it aint your confidence .its about the differance between emotional and physical pain . its easyer to deal with what you can see and feel. i no it from experiance .the clowns you mentioned are dirt that allready hurt you. why give them another chance same with every thing that does. you need to find a thing or place a boy maby that your happy arround and think on that when your down but fight yea! no easy way get pissed not depressed . best of every thing pet
2006-11-13 20:42:24 · answer #6 · answered by benodicite 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Yes it is worth stopping again. There is no shame in getting help with your problem. It doesn't matter what anyone says about you you need to take care of yourself. Please get some help.
2006-11-13 21:13:54 · answer #7 · answered by Jake F 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
stop cutting please...
you are my only chance to find someone to help my child...
I need your help...
Please?
2006-11-14 14:38:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to either go to a psychotherapist, or/and you can tell your PCP (Primary Care Physician) what you told us here. She/He will be able to help you better. She/He will refer you to a psychotherapist who specializes in this. (There are docs. who specialize in cutting/cutters.) Good luck!
2006-11-13 20:00:14 · answer #9 · answered by Nerds Rule! 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
just get over it. stop cutting, you can if you really want to.
2006-11-13 19:59:08 · answer #10 · answered by L 4 · 0⤊ 5⤋