If a guy likes you and you dont like him back what do you tell him?

Question

Ok........hes really sweet, but totally not my type. Hes a little on the stalker side. I have told him many times that we could JUST be friends but he dont get it. Help!!!!

Answer 1

Just be honest and tell him you're not interested romantically.
"dropping hints" is just another way of describing "lying" so don't do it.
Girls are surprised when guys get pissed off at this, but it's just lying, not hinting.

Answer 2

Tell him you're not interested in him romantically and if he keeps acting the way he has been, that you don't think you can be friends with him either. Don't be sweet about it, tell him flat out and with a little harshness in your voice, cuz obviously the nice thing isn't getting through to him. Also, if he isn't getting it, point out the stalker-esque things he's been doing and say "after you've done (list stalker points x, y and z) I could never imagine going out with you. Please get over me and find someone else, for the last time I am NOT interested."
Another plan is to find a guy to go out with so he'll get off your back, but maybe thats not such a good plan :)
Good luck sweetie, he sounds like a real creep (yes, even sweet guys can be total creeps).

Answer 3

well, if he didnt respect the fact that you told him you would rather just be friends, and he dosent get the poin , then be stern with him hun.u need to tell him that you JUST want to be friends with him an if he cant respect that at all, then , theres no need to be friends or have any contact at all. because if he is cant respect you on "friend" terms, then he is not being a friend, and you dont need some one like that around you!! i ahve learned from experience, if you dont stop it when it you notice that it is a problem, there is a chance that it can really get out of hand, better safe than sorry.good luck.......bye

Answer 4

If you know for sure that he likes you (not you just guessing) then you need to tell him when your alone that you like him but you just dont have feelings for him in that way, if he's a real friend he will understand

Answer 5

I have been in a situation like that. The thing is that I have a bf and he seems not to understand. I would advise you, just come out with it and tell him that you don't like him that way. If he seems not to understand, just ignore him and then maybe he will go away. I guess he is just playing stubborn.

Answer 6

if your being nice about it and told him over and over that you are better off freinds....just yell at him if you have had enough and you have told him time and time again. thats really all you can do without doing so much damage..or say you like another guy but you shouldnt lie unless you really need to your feel to have the need to lie to him

Answer 7

well if you've told him you wanna be just friends, well then thats nice, not enough for him though, but it should, many other skankss wouldn't do that, you're nice, well you should just try to stay away from him, do your thing and forget bout the stalker!

Answer 8

This may go against your nature, but some people you just have to spell it out to them. Not being mean, but simply saying you don't like him and will never like him and he needs to find another girl.

Answer 9

Just tell him to back off & if he don't payattention 2 dat then he has some serious issues!

Answer 10

Be honest and upfront. Do not lead him on, waste his time or raise his expectations. Tell him how you feel about him. If he doesn't get it, just avoid him.