all my friends want a partner bcoz they cant wait to do IT. But, i like a girl and im not even thinking of sleeping wit her. Is there somethin wrong wit me? Does modern l.o.v.e only depend on sleeping and nothing else????????
2006-11-13 11:49:36 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
by the way im a high school senior
2006-11-13 11:57:28 · update #1
No way. The sex..when and if it happens, is just an added bonus to all the other awesome stuff that comes along with being in a relationship like having someone you can ALWAYS talk to...someone to hang out with ..someone to share your dreams with...and someone to help get you thru the ups and downs of life.
Don't worry if most of the guys you know are only interested in sex...When you're ready...you'll do it and maybe do it even better than them ;) Until then, remember..you're perfectly normal and just enjoy the time you get to spend with this girl!!
Good luck!
2006-11-13 11:58:20 · answer #1 · answered by Shakira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first off, my semi-literate freind, you should learn to use all of the letters in a word, as this facilitates accurate communication between sentient beings.
And really, you haven't even considered consumating coitus with the lady? Even one stray thought?
If that is true, Bravo! Bellissimo! outstanding control of the base instincts of man.
No, mi compadre, modern love is not all about the s e x , modern LUST is all about the act. Love is deeper, and lasting.
Lust is what you feel before the act. Love is what keeps you going after the act
2006-11-13 19:57:39 · answer #2 · answered by George Curious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is absolutely nothing wrong with you. Your friends are desperate and that is why they want to "do it." If they ever start pressuring you and asking you what is wrong with you, just ignore them. Don't let the thought that they are putting pressure on you intimidate you. Modern love only depends on sleeping if the person is desperate. You can have a gf/bf without thinking of having sexual intercourse with them. =)
2006-11-13 19:55:50 · answer #3 · answered by fake_is_the_new_trend 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no there is nothing wrong with u im witha guy and we havent even did it yet i mean we have done stuff but we havent had sex yet and we r 2 years apart so no there is nothing wrong with u if ur not ready to sleep with her than dont push ur self in to doing it b/c u think there is something wrong with u b/c ur friends want a parnter to sleep with b/c they cant wait to do it that doesnt mean u have to i mean all my friend expect 1 hasnt lost theirs and she hasnt had a boyfriend in her life and dont want one so just b/c ur friends want to do that doesnt mean u have to believe me i thought there was something wrong with me too when all my friends kept talking about ur sex life and stuff like that and i couldnt get in to the conversation b/c im a virgin and im proud of it b/c i have someone that is a virgin still and its good to know that there r other people out there that wait for the right person before they decide to lose theirs to someone so dont think there is something wrong with u b/c of that i mean b/c there isnt anything wrong with u i thought that until i meant the rihgt guy for me and he told me the same thing i told u so believe me on this one
2006-11-13 20:00:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no nothings wrong with you, girls like that about guys. not every girl wants to sleep with a guy and you are in the right mindset
2006-11-13 19:53:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey- you rock....and let me tell you sumthin else...too many people now are obsessed wit sex and they are missing what everything is really all about-it's about the thigns you see in the opposite sex...like their likes and dislikes,their dreams and goals and thigns you have in comman-u r a good guy and don't change.....the girl who gets u will be really lucky
take care!
Love
~Ally
2006-11-13 19:59:13 · answer #6 · answered by greenismylife.songismyworld 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great, you dant have to sleep with someone just becuz u like them. Have sex with the person you fall in love with.
2006-11-13 19:52:07 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well most guys do want to have sex or atleast do other things to keep them "going" but it depends on your age too? how old are u... and a girl will respect you if you wait but I usually dont hear this from guys
2006-11-13 19:55:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with that.
However I do have a problem with the fact you CHOOSE to call yourself "gangsta". That is a sign of a social disorder.
2006-11-13 19:55:18 · answer #9 · answered by bonsaibob999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, there's nothing wrong with you for wanting a meaningful relationship before wanting to have sex.
2006-11-13 19:54:53 · answer #10 · answered by Steph L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋