should i give my ex a third chance or should i drop him like a bad habit?

Question

me and my ex started goin out on january,6,06 we never really had any serious problems untill one day when he asked me if he could go to ring dance with this gurl and i was like no and then he broke up with me and started goin out wit her but den 3 mounths later he asked me back out and i said yes becuase i still loved him and i still wanted to be with him becuase he was my first and we had a connection but now we have onle been back together for a mounth and he already broke up with me and is going out with another girl but he is tellin me dat he wants to be with me. mind u niether of these bird slook any where close then better than me but hey i still love him and im ready to take any chances i have to to be with him so all im asking is for yall to tell me is i should leave him alone i kno most of yall will say dat i should but yall really have to think about it wat if this boy was ur first real love teh first boy u ever had sex with or got intamint with think about it from my piont

Answer 1

fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me! and um fool me THREE times and i'm a damn fool. don't give this jerk another chance to break your heart

Answer 2

I won't just tell you to move on, I will tell you what is best for you. If it didn't work the 1st time, or the 2nd, what makes you think that it will work the third time? It seems to me this young man doesn't know what he wants. I think when he has a dry spell he uses you, and when things start heating up again with other women, he's gone again. Think more of yourself and a little less of him. You deserve to be with someone that wants only you. That is what you should be looking for, it just seems like this guy will never give you this.

Answer 3

omg r u serious? obviously they dont teach self respect to young ladies anymore . If you love yourself you would never have given up the tail and you sure as heck would not have let it be a second chance but for gods sake a third time? come on you sound needy as all u know what, no offense...YOU ASKED!!!! My advice is 1.) Get respect for yourself 2) Get your writing and grammar skills fixed 3) do not worry about a guy until you fix what is wrong with you...tou need to love and cherish you and your body before anyone will ever truly love u for you ...otherwise it is just tail 4) find yourself a really good church with an awesome youth group and really get involved. it is a great way to meet other descent guys and girls your age and you might find out the meaning of self respect as well. No offense to you but if this answer hurt your feelings then u need to look in the mirror and see if i am telling u the truth b/c truth hurts sweetie. dont become one of the nasty hoochie chickenheads out there...be the leader , have class and carry yourself in a way that demands respect. MEN LOVE TO USE WOMEN FOR THEIR BODIES...DONT LET THEM WIN.

Answer 4

well i know how u feel my ex did the worst to me after 7 months of going out he broke up with me to go out with my friend but u know wut i made a pact that even though he might come back i would never except him again. i have decided to move on and have a new boyfriend that i know for sure im in love with. and i can just tell that my feelings for this boyfriend are stronger then the ones that i had with my ex. even though my ex was my first kiss and my first real relationship i still knew that i wasnt going to be able to forgive him so i moved on just lyk he did and now i am happier then ever. so i think u should just forget about him hes not worth having ur heart on hault for.

Answer 5

Ok, I am thinking about it from your point of view and I wanna know why u think u aren't worth someone who will treat u right.

Why do u allow yourself to only be there at his convenience? He's an a s s h o l e. I understand that he was your first, but u need to do whatever it takes to get over him.

Start the process by realizing that u have allowed yourself to be treated like crap and get mad!

You can get over him. We all have had firsts and first loves that we didn't end up with and we are all still living. You can do it.

Good luck!

Answer 6

They say the third times the charm, but in your case he has to go before he gives you some sort of STD or worse. He only comes back because you allow him. You know he is dating others while on a break, but to me in my eyes he only does this to you so that he can have his cake and eat it too. Hun please don't allow this creep to creep back into you life you are worth so much more than what he is dishing out to you. They also say that there is someone for everyone. He definately is NOT for you girl. Show some self pride and kick his sorry butt to the curb....Good luck...

Answer 7

You have to be with him? Your more invested in him than he is in you. It seems that he treats you like a back up. Also If he really wanted to "be with you" he wouldn't break up with you to be with another girl. I am currently in a "first love" relationship and he treats me well and so do I. We respect each other. You deserve better. It's going to be hard though.

Answer 8

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Answer 9

I think its time to move on darlin' He knows that he can dump you get some girlie elsewhere and then come crawling back to you knowing you will take him back. Take control of the situation and he will soon learn not to take you for granted, tell him your already seeing someone even if your not.

Answer 10

Girl, it's time to move on. If he's left you twice, he's gonna leave you again. To me, it sounds like all he wants/ed is sex. Girl, it may be hard, but you have to get rid of him. You deserve better!

Answer 11

your story is totally same ask me last time..but i will choose to break with him cos although i love him so much but he nt really love you and not put you first in his life..why you still need to concern about this relationship?better you find a guy tat love you more than you love him?relationship cannot share with another person..think about it..