are we moving too slow???

Question

okay....... me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 months, and we have only been on one date, and that was to the mall. I see him everyday at school, and we havent been on a second date yet, and we haven't even KISSED!!! Are we moving too slow??? Any suggestions on how to speed up our relationship. I feel as if we are getting nowhere. Thanks!!!

Answer 1

Too slow or to fast depends on the both of you. If you feel it's going too slow, then it's going too slow for you. But if your OK with it then it's OK.

On the other hand you'd have to look into why it's going so slow on is side. (usually guys are fast at this kind of things) Maybe is shy, maybe he didn't quite realise your going out together, maybe he as some religious issues that stops him from doing anything with a girl. It could be anything. One thing is for sure, if you're not asking you're not getting any answers.

anyways hope you get your way

Answer 2

my bf and i didnt kiss until our 5th date. And i asked him! he could just be shy. Ask him. The only way to know for sure if he is serious is to ask. Moving slow is WAY better than moving fast, because if you do everything within the first month of dating; there is nothing to look foward to. How about you kiss him, or you ask him on a date.

Answer 3

I think it's a sign to be honest.
I was with a guy for 3 months when I was a freshman in high school. We never kissed, went out just the 2 of us, nothing. All we did was hold hands. When he broke up with me, he said he only went out with me because everyone pressured him to ask me out. So.... take it as a sign...

You're young. Most people don't know what a relationship takes to last when you're young. If you really want to know what is going on, ask him. Talk to him.

Answer 4

Have you tried offering hanging out with him or asking him out sometimes you should try making the moves yourself. He may be to shy or he may not be interested(sry 2 say this). Give him opprotunities to see if you can pick up the pace. Remember sometime going slow is better then having a really fast relationship.LUCK! Hope this helps.
- pld

Answer 5

Definitely! Although there is no blueprint for a perfect relationship, your situation seems to be bothering you. If you would like to go on more dates; why don't you ask your boyfriend out on a date and express your joy of spending time with him outside of school. However, before you ask him out again...you'd better have a strong idea of what you would like to do. Don't leave it up to him to figure out what kind of date to go on. Good Luck!

Answer 6

Yes...too slow! One date in 2 months & no kiss? I'm not sure if yall are really an official couple.

Answer 7

Well tell him how you feel, and that you want to spend more time with him because you don't feel that this relationship is moving into a positive light.. and that it'z not too late to turn it around.. you don't have to start the realtionship from the ground just till him whats on ur mind.

Answer 8

it doesnt even sound like your dating. you can suprise him by taking him out on a date and maybe he'll get the hint. or you could cook him dinner and just make another second date. you could say that there is this movie you've been wanting to see and you want him to go with you. or theres a new restaurant and you want to try it together.

Answer 9

moving too slow would be going on dates frequently and not kissing. it doesn't even sound like you're dating.

Answer 10

it can only go some where if you guys want it to. you should make the 1st move. ask HIM out on the 2nd date and kiss HIM! guys don't have to do it all!