I have liked this girl for a while now, but every time I ask her to hang out she says "no".
I just got back from my Grandpa's Funeral and now she has asked me out.
All our friends know that my Grandpa was loaded and that I got a nice chunk of change in inheratence, do you think that they told her?
Does she only want to date now that I have $$$?
Should I tell her that is is in a Trust and I don't get it till I turn 30 (4 more years)?
2006-11-13 11:02:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let her know that you will not get the money until you turn age 35. It will give you more time to learn how to judge the intentions of this one and others. Do not broadcast you inheritance to any more people!
2006-11-13 11:07:15 · answer #1 · answered by Sentinel 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a "3 strikes" law when asking girls out, or calling them.
If I get 3 no's, I give up.
I think your suspiciouns might be real, or she may just feel sorry for you, if she knew that you were close to your grandfatther, but really, most likely she's just preparing for her future, like most women, when they look forward to the day that they won't have to work, and be supported by someone else (you).
2006-11-13 19:19:33 · answer #2 · answered by dork 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No Don't tell her for 2 reasons;
1st. If you tell her it's in a trust and she genuinley likes you then she might feel insulted that you thought she wanted the money.
2nd. If she really does only want to date you for the money, maybe you can use the opportunity to let her see what you are like.
2006-11-13 19:06:49 · answer #3 · answered by Mkoll 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1st of all why would u tell her that.. u have a big mouth.. that is to much info to be volunteering.. it ain't even her business.. what u need to do is allow her to hang out w/u and see how she reacts... don't offer to do anything for her and don't buy her shyt.. u'll find out if she's a gold digger soon enough.. after that, don't give her to the time of the day cause obviously that's the only reason why she wants to hang...
2006-11-13 19:05:37 · answer #4 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That is very quite possible. Just hang out with her a few times and see how she acts. She may just wanna date you now so give it a chance and see where it goes:)
2006-11-13 19:04:47 · answer #5 · answered by sweet kisses 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well sounds like she either feels bad for u, changed her mind, or wants the money. id say its the last one, b/c if ur instincts tell u shes after it, and it makes logical sense to otehrs, ya mite not want to date her at all. she sounds kinda selfish but u could give her a chance and tell her that too!
2006-11-13 19:09:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't waste your time with this girl. either this is a sympathy date or she is a no good gold digger. do you really want to settle for either case? find a girl who appreciates you for who you really are.
2006-11-13 19:06:14 · answer #7 · answered by KylieM 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, that does sound like gold digger to me....so yeah...test her and tell her that and see what she says!!
2006-11-13 19:05:01 · answer #8 · answered by Tiffany 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋