I like this boy and I've known him for about 2 years, and i've been goin out w/ him for about 2 weeks, we r supposed 2 b goin on a date here soon...and I want him to be my first. I'm 13 stil a virgin, he's 15. I love him and I wanna show him hw much I love him. Should i? if any1 thinks I should do u have any ideas where we could do it, or how we could do it. Does it hurt the first time?
2006-11-13 10:46:14 · 18 answers · asked by sara_smiles_10 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd wait-there are other ways to show love. You are WAY too young.
2006-11-13 10:48:58 · answer #1 · answered by bassmaim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, I would not jump into anything like that. You are only 13 and have a lot of life aferwards. I don't think you fully understand what it is to "love" someone. From life experience, the first time is not the best and probably be considered an experience but worst time ever. Yes, it does hurt the first time.
2006-11-13 10:55:27 · answer #2 · answered by acedelux 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur 13 wate at leest a yeer or 2 u ar still 2 yung 2 hav a first time if u wanna sho him u love him jus dont go past 2nd base yet ur movin way 2 fast 4 ur age
n yes girls i did it wit all says it hurts da first time 4 a lil bit
but ut 2 yung 2 do it
2006-11-13 10:49:18 · answer #3 · answered by scott_groen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 weeks is much too soon into a relationship to have sex, even if you're an adult. If your hormones are really raging, and they sound like they are, just think about him and masturbate, don't do anything you'll regret, like have sex with him and end up pregnant. getting pregnant at that age could be seriously bad for your health. I know it's hard but just wait.
2006-11-13 11:05:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
alright girl this seems really important so ill help you out. my first time was at his house when i was 16. i regretted it for a while but then i felt good. ut if your only 13 you should wait. and if you do decide to and dont take my advice no it doesnt hurt that bad the first time.
2006-11-13 10:51:55 · answer #5 · answered by guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen i know you don't want to here this but. SEX is NOT love. there two different things.second your still a child and sex was not created for children end of story!! how do you even know you love him? not saying you don't simply asking how do you know you love him? from the flutter of your emotions? emotions are very fickle things and change like the wind. no don't sleep with him not on your life. sex carries with it a lot of risk and a lot of emotion. your not able to handle that I'm sure. and yes it hurts and you might even bleed for a while.
2006-11-13 10:59:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it hurts. a lot.
please wait. you need to give it a while before committing that much. you always have feelings for your first. theres other ways to show your love.
you would regret it. i promise.
2006-11-17 10:25:10 · answer #7 · answered by MsPacman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should jus wait until u get a little older cuz ur still young! ....if u love him that bad, show him how much u luv him in another way.....
2006-11-13 10:52:03 · answer #8 · answered by [[ CELTiCS ]] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun don't do it..It may seem like a good idea now, but believe me if you have sex now you will regret it later
btw it hurts like HELL
2006-11-13 10:49:13 · answer #9 · answered by secret s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a15 year old boy is too old find someone closer to your age
2006-11-13 10:51:16 · answer #10 · answered by Mary Alice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋