me and him have stayed good friends for two years now and she caught on that we were still talking (only as friends of course) and sms me to not sms him again, what do i do?? I'm sure he may have known that she did that and she keeps deleting my number so im not sure if he wanted to say sorry about it and couldn't get hold of me or he didn't know at all
2006-11-13 10:44:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
also its him birthday in 4 days so i contact him 4 that?
2006-11-13 10:51:25 · update #1
well first, do you live close together? if so go right up to him and talk to him, tell him what his new gf is doing and stuff. DONT LET HIS NEW GF STAND IN THE WAY OF YOUR FRIENDSHIP WITH HIM, i think you dont want to lose that..
2006-11-13 10:47:29 · answer #1 · answered by Nickie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is clearly an issue between the two of them. She has trust issues, self-confidence issues, or something like that. Anything you might say to him about it will put him in a position where he'll feel forced to choose between you & her - if she's the current gf, she'll win. Sorry: harsh, but true.
I understand that you must value your friendship with him. But right now, he's all about her and as long as she continues to want him all to herself SHE WILL WIN. You need to let it go - when he's ready to contact you, he will.
2006-11-13 18:56:20 · answer #2 · answered by 40yomama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay u need to put yourself in her shoes.I mean really like u are going to let your bf talk to his ex.You need to respect her decision to stop u from talking to him and let him contact u. If he chooses to call u then it's on him.But u should remember that u should do onto others as u want them to do onto u. Good luck I can say the same thing about 50 years experience. So don't go by that.
2006-11-13 18:49:23 · answer #3 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had many friends ( m/f) who had new girlfriends or boyfriends didn't want them to talk to even a friend OR EX b/f or g/f. You just have to accept this and move on.
If the ex wants to reach you, they will know where to find you,but until then, you must explain the situation to them and give them space.
2006-11-13 18:53:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should you talk to him? It is not right. Let them be happy. If he wants to communicate with you then let him contact you. You shouldn't be disrespecting his gf if you know she has a problem with it. You wouldn't want it done to you.
2006-11-13 18:48:53 · answer #5 · answered by shellese2 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let him go and get on w it= don't waste your time or energy= how would you like a bf that still has talks and closeness w his ex=???? not good-D
2006-11-13 18:48:15 · answer #6 · answered by Debby B 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds to me like she has a self image or trust problem... If you're truly his friend, be patient. Her jealousy will push him away and then he will need his friends.
2006-11-13 18:50:36 · answer #7 · answered by cherryadept 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably this girl is very insecure about you, surly there are other ways you can contact him to find out if he wishes to continue this friendship
2006-11-13 18:48:10 · answer #8 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would wait and see if he notice that you haven't called him ........he might call you then you can let him know the reason why ......cuz if you keep trying to call him now its just going to cause problems in between them and shes going to keep deleting your calls............good luck
2006-11-13 18:52:22 · answer #9 · answered by mari 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget her she is being a ***** about it she needs to not be jelous.
2006-11-13 18:47:18 · answer #10 · answered by Tater_Salad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋