Whats up, I posted this a little bit ago but after the first posts or whatever you dont get anymore so I wanted some more opinions one last time. I have girls who like me who are pretty, I’m not a doofus or ugly but I’m waiting for the right one. Some of the girls I find pretty but there are many other downfalls, and I dont shut people down without a reason, I know them all and try to get to know everyone. I'm not about getting with girls who I can’t see myself loving, I'll be 18 and haven’t done much with girls, instead of focusing my energy on girls I try to become more successful with my profession, I have done a lot with my life, just wondering what all your opinions are, I feel like I should just do my thing and let things unfold like I do, but being around so many people who are constantly trying to get with girls makes me second guess myself, get back to me AIM=AtribecalledKRS or just post. Peaceee
2006-11-13 10:28:16 · 7 answers · asked by Wu to the Tang 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you're 18, you still have plenty time to be with girls. there is nothing wrong with you focusing on your profession. if you feel you want a gf then think if you can balance a gf and profession at the same time.
2006-11-13 10:31:43 · answer #1 · answered by S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Working on a profession is great. Keeping that your number one focus is a great way to become successful in life. Though one must think about what they are sacrificing in order to achieve goals in one area.
About the dating in order to get married. I would have to disagree there. I date these days knowing that all my relationships(unless i find the right one on the way) will end because of my career and the distance I will have to travel in order to accomplish my goals. So I have decided it is ok to date without marriage potential in order to have the skills necessary to get the girl of my dreams when I finally meet her I will know how to get her.
2006-11-13 18:44:31 · answer #2 · answered by netheral 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To some degree you have to do what you want and not let others pressure you into relationships you don't want.
There is a huge difference between someone waiting for the right one and choosing not to date and someone who says they choose not to date because they can't find a girl to date them.
You seem to be doing okay, stick with what you want.
2006-11-13 18:30:46 · answer #3 · answered by QuestionWyrm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you rush into a relationship without getting to know the girl you'll just end up heartbroken. So in a way it's goodthing you are doing that.
2006-11-13 18:32:32 · answer #4 · answered by glorious_depression 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a very smart young man, work on yourself first, If you eventaully find a girl that peaks your interest then date. Dotn let your peers influence you.
2006-11-13 18:43:05 · answer #5 · answered by vanessamustteach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got it! Don't worry about women at this point in your life. Keep working on your "profession" and get your money right first.
Once you get your money right, you can get any woman you want.
2006-11-13 18:33:15 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. Right 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try going out wiht girls even if you don't desperately want to go out with them. Then when you do meet the girl of your dreams you will be able to catch her. just dont take girls and date them if you really dotn like them.
2006-11-13 18:32:25 · answer #7 · answered by sugercoolcows 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋