this guy whould i talk to n is kinda cute just kissed me one day and he asked be to do friends with benefits with him. Should I? I don't want to look like a s.l.u.t. will I?
2006-11-13 10:21:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well even though girls just say you want to be friends with benefits, we always tend to get attached even if we dont want to.I would say find someone that really likes you and wants to be in a real relationship with you and not just for sex.*
2006-11-13 10:26:18 · answer #1 · answered by abelssexywifey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my past experiences, I really liked this guy and he didnt want a relationship but he claimed it was different in between us. To make a long story short, we basically became friends with benefits. We were just that for about a year. I had never had that type of relationship with someone. I became attatched and i didnt want to be with anyone but him. i just think u should be careful because someone can really get their heartbroken- whether it be u or him. If you have no feelings for each other and you both just want sex then i guess neither of you would be hurt emotionally. But i do not think being friends with benefits has ANY benefits.
2006-11-13 10:29:50 · answer #2 · answered by misty_mhs06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, FwB isn't slutty at all. You get to maintain your singlehood and satisfy your physical desires at the same time, as long as you keep the relationship exclusive. Of course, in your case, you might want to get to know the guy a little better before you set the relationship in stone — and remember that the worst thing you can do is develop actual feelings for the guy.
2006-11-13 10:33:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he has no objective of ever courting you. that is a complication-loose manipulation. he will do precisely sufficient to make you imagine you've a danger, yet by no potential dedicate to you. do not fall for it, tell him you want some area and get over him. It received't end nicely in case you compromise for his grant.
2016-11-29 02:52:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will look like a s.l.u.t. to be honest.
You do NOT wanna get hurt.
Because you will in the end.
Be smart.
Don't let him take advantage of you like that.
You're more than that ...
If you like him, get him to work hard for you.
That way it'll show if he REALLY likes you.
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Don't be the apple on the ground...
2006-11-13 10:23:53 · answer #5 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that is the coolest ideal, as long as you can keep your emotions out of it, which is something most women can't do. I wish I knew a woman who would be interested in that and could do it.
2006-11-13 11:20:46 · answer #6 · answered by k-net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just easier that way. Go for it.
2006-11-13 10:25:14 · answer #7 · answered by kinreep 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
IF YOU ARE OVER 21, CHOOSE ME INSTEAD!
2006-11-13 10:24:04 · answer #8 · answered by Joe Prosnick 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋