Well im out of my country i cheated on my girl she doesn't know bout it but i wanna be loyal and faithfull, so i left the girl out here but what shud i do. Is it a good idea i tell my love just now or wait for a while n tell her later on?????????????
2006-11-13 10:21:37 · 18 answers · asked by AJ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should tell her right away. She'll be more likely to forgive you, since you didn't try and keep it a secret from her. I personally hate secrets, I htink we should lay them out in the open. Tell her you're really sorry, too. You shouldn't have cheated in the first place.
2006-11-13 10:25:21 · answer #1 · answered by littlemoochild 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you want to be loyal and faithfull to your love and you cheat on her? you should tell her now so that she can decide whether she wants to stay or go. if you tell her later on she will be living a lie and thats not fair on her
2006-11-13 18:27:13 · answer #2 · answered by Shorty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well the sooner you tell her the better you will feel and the easier it will be for her to forgive you if you wait to tell her its like you don't trust your relationship enough to just break down and be honest trust me my boyfriend cheated on me and its allot easier to forgive than it is to forget but everything worked out and now we have to kids and are getting married in three months so i would tell her now and get it over with so she can start the process of forgiveness cause it takes awhile but if she really loves you she will forgive you just give her time good luck you sound very sincere about the situation....
2006-11-13 18:29:39 · answer #3 · answered by patricia b lexington,ky 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be loyal and faithful- which you haven't been- you could have who knows what disease- it is a toss up=you tell her she may dump you= which is understandable= or she may be very forgiving= or wait= but tell her when you see her- before you have sex= D
2006-11-13 18:28:25 · answer #4 · answered by Debby B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nah homie tell her now. If I waz your gurl I would want u 2 tell me dead up. Cause you don't want 2 wait to long before things get madd serious and then your into it even deeper. Tell your girl what u did.
2006-11-13 18:26:14 · answer #5 · answered by :) 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How would you feel if she cheated on you and didn't tell you? Her reaction to your news won't be good but the longer you keep it from her, the worse she'll feel about your "love" for her.
2006-11-13 18:31:28 · answer #6 · answered by Ray 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell your girlfriend, it is better to be open and honest than to lie, if she gets upset with you, it is your mistake, and you need to understand that, I'm a girl and if a guy ever cheated on me I would like it for him to tell me instead of not telling me he cheated on me,
good luck
2006-11-13 18:35:46 · answer #7 · answered by ashley 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell her and see what happens, but it was wrong of you to cheat on the one you "love" but if you really love her you wouldnt of done that, imagine if she did that to you. you would be heartbroken, if some other girl in another coutnry was that irresistable then maybe you really dont deserve another chance
2006-11-13 18:33:38 · answer #8 · answered by oh baby 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if you tell her now she might break up with u (i know i would of. no offense).so i think u should wait a little longer maybe 1 year at least.
2006-11-13 18:26:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. Tell her she'll forgive you because you've been honest, then she'll jilt you.
2. Don't tell her and she finds out when you're in a drunken stupor, she won't forgive you and jilt you.
3. You've lost this girl, don't be unfaithful again!
2006-11-13 18:29:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋