Last night she accused someone of knocking a hole in a wall, while the someone was in the bathroom and overheard her say that she should pay for the damages to correct the problem. The lady in the bathroom is a coworker of mine with whom I work closely with a few days a week. These ladys do not like each other to start with. My coworker stormed out side where she had a freind waiting and I went out to tell him that he could come into the house, ( the owner had just called and told my friend that they can wait inside untill she returns.) But when I went out, the coworker was ready to box my friend, it took me about ten min. to calm her down. In the mean time, my freind sets all my stuff out side her room and tells me ' you kissed their *** and I don't want you as a freind anymore!' Do I have the right to ask my freind if I can have another chance at our friend ship? ***SECRETLY I LOVE HER, though we're not suspose to (as agreed). now I'm dumb-founded...ADVICE PLEASE what to do?
2006-11-13 10:09:07 · 5 answers · asked by doy_hal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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I have told her that I love her and she stated that love is not an option for us and that she has two reasons mforno love in her life, (1.) She has stage II cancer. (2.) that she is affraid that I'll leave her when the going gets tough, (with in the next year or two. *** Also, this is our second round, In our frist RELATIONSHIP there was no sex, just friendship but she cut it off and two days latter she had a boyfriend, ( they lasted about 3 mos. A few weeks ago she confronted me and told me that she wanted to rekindle our relationship with a little spice, and the flirting was on nfor about three weeks before I took the bait. HONESTLY I DO NOT KNOW IF SHE HAS ANOTHER BOYFRIEND OR NOT SINCE I ONLY STAYED A FEW NIGHTS A WEEK, BUT THATS HER M. O. ! ! !
2006-11-13 10:32:42 · update #1
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I have told her that I love her and she stated that love is not an option for us and that she has two reasons mforno love in her life, (1.) She has stage II cancer. (2.) that she is affraid that I'll leave her when the going gets tough, (with in the next year or two. *** Also, this is our second round, In our frist RELATIONSHIP there was no sex, just friendship but she cut it off and two days latter she had a boyfriend, ( they lasted about 3 mos. A few weeks ago she confronted me and told me that she wanted to rekindle our relationship with a little spice, and the flirting was on nfor about three weeks before I took the bait. HONESTLY I DO NOT KNOW IF SHE HAS ANOTHER BOYFRIEND OR NOT SINCE I ONLY STAYED A FEW NIGHTS A WEEK, BUT THATS HER M. O. ! ! !
2006-11-13 10:32:43 · update #2
I dont understand ANY of this.
What I do undrstand is the relationship stuff. Get out of it. Get away from it. It sounds like this is one of those houses where the police frequently visit.
Peace
2006-11-13 10:13:05 · answer #1 · answered by James S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to give her some space for a few days and then sit down and talk to her. You keeping it secret that you love her is not helping the situation at all, and you also dont wanna be in a relationship with someone who dosent feel the same about you.
2006-11-13 10:13:06 · answer #2 · answered by mstuffyakim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too screwed up for me to figure out. Is this all women or what ? Three involved? Not my idea of a good time. Sounds like a Jerry Springer special to me.........
2006-11-13 10:14:37 · answer #3 · answered by silhouette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You broke the rules by falling in love with your f buddy. Time to find a new one.
2006-11-13 10:19:56 · answer #4 · answered by Jason S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOUNDS LIKE THE THREE OF YOU NEED TO SETTLE THIS ON JERRY SPRINGER! GOOD LUCK!
2006-11-13 10:12:31 · answer #5 · answered by Joe Prosnick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋