I'm not trying to sound mean but there is no way I would ever do her and she keeps trying hard to hit on me. So hard she even told me she wants to do it. She is in my college class. I ignore her flirting and everything but she wont leave me alone. If my friends found out I hit it they would be very upset. How can I just tell her nicely i just want to be friends in the classroom.
2006-11-13 10:07:17 · 28 answers · asked by jwurm99 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm 20. I'm saying do it because fags report people on yahoo answers
2006-11-13 10:14:28 · update #1
You have to be straight forward and to the point you have to figure out how to do that without being mean. Just be honest and tell her you are not attracted to her. Or you can lie and say you have a girlfriend and she would be pissed if she were to find out that she was talking to you that way. And you would be devastated without her.
2006-11-13 10:11:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her like you just said it here. Im not interested in you in that way,,we can be friends and thats it,,dont keep hitting on me its really annoying the **** out of me,,,,and if you cant accept just being friends then thats your bad luck. Tell her straight out until she gets the hint. If she cant take no for an answer im sorry to say you might have to get mean with her.
2006-11-13 10:10:50 · answer #2 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her straight up that you're not interest. Tell her you dont want to be in a relationship that dosen't interest you. Make sure you do it in a public view (especially since she's persistent) and don't fall into any of the guilt trap. If she starts crying, give her a tissue, tell her again you're not interested and leave. The sooner you do it, the more likely she'll stop.
2006-11-13 10:16:06 · answer #3 · answered by Callie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do exactly that sit her down and tel her NICELY that you're not looking for more than a friendship inside the classroom. But you have to be gentle. If that doesn't work then maybe just cut her off completely.
2006-11-13 10:10:27 · answer #4 · answered by I'm better than you 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for starts who the hell cares what your friends think is that the reason you wont "hit" it is cuz they would laugh at you, you and your friends need to grow up on that part, two if you do'nt want to "hit" it just tell her there is no chance in hell it will ever happen, some times ppl do't understand "nice" alot of time you have to be mean to get the point accross
2006-11-13 10:10:13 · answer #5 · answered by dom_parnell 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all, i think the way u r thinking is u hit it then leave it is disgusting and who gives a **** what your friends think they r not your friends if they judge u for your actions.....(i am 15 and i know that).
But anyways.....tell her u r sry but u r not intrested in her that way, but u would like to be friends with her.
2006-11-13 10:12:25 · answer #6 · answered by Victoria B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I found out the best way to tell some one your not interested in them is honesty she will be upset but she will get over it soon enough
2006-11-13 10:15:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be careful waht u say cause all the ugly girls turn to be really hot when they grow up and u'll be sorry u didn't want to go out with her! just get to no her as a friend! and tell her you just want to be friends and nothing more and be sure not to lead her on.
2006-11-13 10:16:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow How old are you 16? Just tell her you rather be friends and that you care for her as a friend or you owuld just have sex with her for the heck of it. YOu would be letting her down and complementing her at the same time.
2006-11-13 10:09:40 · answer #9 · answered by vanessamustteach 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her you think she's ugly. That's the worst thing a girl can hear from a guy that she likes. She will definantly HATE you if you say this to her and she will leave you alone. Either that or just say that you're already dating someone:)
2006-11-13 10:09:35 · answer #10 · answered by sweet kisses 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋