I love this beautiful, wonderful woman and I know the feelings are mutual, but it seems like she won't let herself experience or express that feeling. She is really not commited to anything in life. She works hard, but I really think it's only to try and forget that she is avoiding commitment. I am just wondering if anyone can shed light or share experiences on fear of commitment. How does it manifest itself? Has anyone had success dealing with it? I want to hope, but I don't really know what I'm getting into. I know I can't change her or help her unless she asks for it. I am just hoping to set some reasonable expectations for myself if I choose to pursue this further.
2006-11-13 10:00:26 · 3 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Health ➔ Mental Health
fear of commitment can come from several different reasons....my fear of commitment comes from past relationships that were very painful. If you love her and she loves you then you are just gonna have to wait for her. She will come around when she is ready to. If you dont want to wait for her to commit then take a break from each other. The old saying "if you love someone let them go and if it is meant to be they will return". She may be comfortable in your relationship as it is and not feel that commitment is needed.....
2006-11-13 10:09:04 · answer #1 · answered by kndykisz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget her, she's not someone to waste the time on. Let Go, Be free. Billions of Female gendered on the planet. Don't limit yourself.
2006-11-13 18:08:23 · answer #2 · answered by Answerer 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes i think there is , people are mostly immature now days
2006-11-13 18:13:40 · answer #3 · answered by SWM 38 _4_ YOUNG GF 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋