2006-11-13 09:37:09 · 13 answers · asked by Tiffany Marie 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
im like that, and i really dont want attention. i hate it when people say grow up or your not the only one, because i know im not the only one (and i dont claim to be) people who dont cut dont understand how hard it is to stop once you start(not that i want to stop) when i cut, i dont feel anything, so i dont know about what the person ment who wrote it is a good experence.
2006-11-13 10:37:13 · answer #1 · answered by sweetypiexox 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people that do this suffer from some sort of depression, stress, or sadness. The brain releases a chemical that makes it seem to have no or little pain. Me I used to suffer from this also, I would do anything to get away from the pain that I went through, it was a way out for even a moment. Yes it's not the best thing in the world to do, I do believe there are other alternatives also, so thus I am against it, but we should treat the people who suffer like this fairly.
2006-11-13 10:04:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people are so awful! i hate that people answer questions when they have no idea and they just dont understand what its like.
ive been there, its hard and it is addictive, but ive discovered that it isnt the answer, in the long run it doesnt help anything, even though at the time it might make you feel better. please talk to someone you trust, let them know how ur feeling, it helps... it really does, or write stuff down, it gets all ur feelings out instead of keeping them inside and writing down also means you dont need to feel embarrassed about what other people may be thinking. seriously do something though... life IS hard.
2006-11-13 10:47:55 · answer #3 · answered by eve is it 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know I think that talking to someone that is close to you might help if you dont have someone close to you maybe try chatting online when you get the feeling to cut. It never hurts to try and get your mind off the pressure of whatever it is thats bothering you. Maybe you could try running like as fast as you can for as long as you can. just anything. Please consider finding someone to talk to and share this with it is very dangerous if your not doing it for attention and it can be no matter what the reason God Bless You and I will keep you in my prayers.
2006-11-13 09:49:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
uve got the rest of ure life and theres always soemthing good after the bad but theres children who dotn ahev a meal or a hosue even loving parents adn they do not cut themselves if u can handlethe pain ure emotianly strong u can handle anythinif u ened more help turn to jesus he wont laugh at u fro asking u soemthing adn he will alaawys listen
2006-11-13 14:49:16 · answer #5 · answered by emo elmo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tiff Tiff Tiff your probably a young girl with some much to live for. You need to look at some of the people in the world that are much less fortunate that you. People with Aids, parapalygics, cancer patients, these are the people with real problems.
Get down on your knees even if your not a christian and ask GOD to let you see the way. It works man!
2006-11-13 09:41:52 · answer #6 · answered by hollandgym 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You need to grow up and get a life. Do something better with your time. You are only doing this for attention. Get a grip of yourself. You are lacking a lot of love and this is the reason why you are acting so out of character. STOP DOING IT AND DO SOMETHING GREAT 4 YOURSELF.
2006-11-13 09:46:27 · answer #7 · answered by Promoqueen in CA 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This is not meant in an offensive way, but I have never met a self-harmer who doesn't do it for the attention (in the long run anyway.)
Trust me, I've met a lot of self-harmers and I know the temptation. It doesn't work.
Neither does suicide or its slower cousin addiction.
2006-11-13 09:47:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you know if people would ****ing try to understand and wouldnt judge what those like us do and maybe we could really get help to stop but we are just on the bottom of the barral or if people would open their eyes and look to see that most of us are in emotional pain that we dont we can get out of the hole we're in
2006-11-13 13:44:41 · answer #9 · answered by ace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I read that people "cut" so they can feel. The "cutting" gives them a pleasurable feeling, even though it's gotta hurt.
So, that's the point, it does "hurt" ..hurt is a feeling you can relate to. It gives you momentary relief from your issues with life.
Hon.. you need counselling, so please go get some..
It's not normal to "cut"..you have problems and I mean that with the best intent.
Tell someone, and get some help... PLEASE.
2006-11-13 09:47:38 · answer #10 · answered by gemma 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋