He cheated on me before and I forgave him. That time it was with my sister. Him and my best friend had a little fling a few years ago.
2006-11-13 09:34:12 · 25 answers · asked by UH-MAN-DUH!! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Once a cheater, ALWAYS a cheater.
First time, shame on him.
Second time, shame on you.
Not much of a "best" friend is she?
You should dump them both and move on.
2006-11-13 09:39:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I hate to say this too you but didn't you ever see this coming? If your boyfriend was willing to sleep with your sister it was bound to come around once again? I believe you really wanted to believe that he wouldn't do it again but he already has a strike against him anyway because he has slept with your sister which in your mind should have been a no from the start...He didn't have any respect for you if he was willing to sleep with her and then later on down the line sleep with you...What was you thinking about? Obviously you wanted your sister's man too and you finally got what you wanted, so now he has slept with your best friend! Now it doesn't feel to good now when you look at the whole big story?
This man is no good to you at all, and that is really the truth my advice to you is get rid of this jerk and move on he doesn't respect you as a woman in the first place and if you continue to see him and continue to allow this to keep going on then you are just as guilty as he is.
2006-11-13 09:41:42 · answer #2 · answered by beagirl40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your Boyfriend is cheating on you with your best friend, You don't have a Best Friend, You don't have a Boyfriend.So what you need to do is go out get your self a New Boyfriend and a new Best friend.As I see it they both don't care about the way you feel, It's already happened at least once, maybe more. Your not even married yet.Wake Up, smell the Coffee burning. if you think you will be lonely,You already have been, you just found out.
2006-11-13 09:57:14 · answer #3 · answered by tnlthunderking2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn from this. Any man who would sleep with your sister is not a man you want. And shame on your sister for helping him cheat on you. And now he's moved on to your best friend? So, what don't you understand about his cheating? Move on. You deserve better. And you need a new best friend.
2006-11-13 09:37:08 · answer #4 · answered by sassybree1979 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should have broken up with him long time ago!!!!!!!!! if he cheated on you with your sister, that shows a great deal of disrespect. now with your so called best friend, he went overboard. the reason why he is doing this is because you keep forgiving him. you gotta stop!!!!!!! plus dump your friend because if she was really your friend, she would never ever do that to you.
2006-11-13 09:40:04 · answer #5 · answered by ~*Godz_ANGEL*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cheats on you w anybody - dump his butt and don't look back- and dump your friend and you need a new sister- sibling rivalry has gone too far- and if you put up with this crap you are dense and asking for more trouble and disease- D
2006-11-13 09:38:23 · answer #6 · answered by Debby B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be calling him your ex boyfriend. He has no respect for you or your relationship.
You let him get away with it once, and now you want to know what to do about a second time?
Get some self respect, and find someone who has honor and integrity.
2006-11-13 09:39:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ewwwwwww for gawds sake ...get rid of him! That's the answer...get rid of him and get a new best friend while you're at it. As for your sister?...shame on her.
What does he have to do for you to see the light? He's disgusting - kick him to the curb already and never look back!
2006-11-13 09:42:29 · answer #8 · answered by svmainus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Catch them in the act and never speak to either of them for the rest of your life. They're no better than the dirt on the bottom of your shoe.
2006-11-13 09:36:52 · answer #9 · answered by Lara Croft 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl i think you need to be done with this boy! If this makes the second time he has done it then he will probably do it again. If he really cares for you then he wouldn't have done it the first time. You show him that your not messing around anymore!!! YOU GO GIRL!!!
2006-11-13 09:40:04 · answer #10 · answered by AG3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋