There is a guy in my school that I like and his name is John. He called me ugly twice but after that he stopped.He always finds some excuse to mess with me, even if its stupid or not. For example, on Friday he asked me where I was from and on thursday he was joking around with one of his friends and he said that I took his friend's jacket (as a joke). Whenever I see him, hes usually looking at me and smiling and talking to his friends at the same time. Yesterday he was across the street from me and he was staring at me pratically.Does he like me? If he does, then how do I tell him that I like him too, because if he doesn't, I don't want his friends to make fun of me for the rest of the year.
Thanks!
2006-11-13 09:04:53 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to think about why you would "like" a guy who calls you ugly, accuses you of stealing and makes fun of you. No one deserves to be treated that way by anyone, particularly the person they're in a "love" relationship with.
Your best move is to completely, totally ignore him. Don't make friendly eye contact, speak courteously, but briefly to him if he's kind, but look him in the eye and pointedly walk away if he's rude in any way. If he likes you, he'll get that he has to behave better to be your boyfriend. If he doesn't, no loss.
When you "like" someone who treats you badly, you're showing them that they can continue to do that and it's ok with you. You deserve better. Hold out for it.
2006-11-13 09:13:36 · answer #1 · answered by Wonderland 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if there is a guy at your ur school that u like his name is john right! at first he called u ugly and then he stopped.then u notice that he stop messing with u. and on one friday he see u n ask u where were u from n on thursday he ws joking around with his friends said u took his jacket.am jaaka n am a boy sooo anytime u need something halla at me aka.
2006-11-13 17:27:28 · answer #2 · answered by jaime d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let nature take its course. Seriously. Don't force anything. You can be open and smile at him, or wave [nobody drops their handkerchiefs anymore - isn't that a shame]. A little innocent flirting is always cute - to a guy. It's also intriguing.
Try and hang out with your girlfriends - and be highly visible - you know - you're having fun and that's really attractive to.
Good luck.
2006-11-13 17:09:02 · answer #3 · answered by theophilus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like he does like you. Guys can act funny when they like a girl. Try talking to him and getting his attention by talking about something you both have in common. Talk about things you both like. Even better, if you have a class together and you both have to study for the same test then mention it to him and see if he says that he has to study for it too. He may ask you if you want to study together. Or you can ask him. BUT make no mistake!! If he starts in with the ugly stuff you dump him in a second. Guys can be like that when they like a girl but it shows his character. He may be too involved with impressing his friends than being serious and mature about you. Go with you heart and good luck honey.
2006-11-13 17:12:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should say something like "I think your ugly and all, but I was wondering if you want to hang out together after school with me and my friends."
Make it a group invitation, and put him down a little.
It will work if he likes you, and will be a soft landing if he doesn't.
2006-11-13 17:08:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
coming from a guy, he either likes you, or hes gay. if you notice gay men lean toward women, but if your sure hes into girls, id say try to be friends, dont approach him with a question of hey wanna go out sometime, hes probably just testing the water to find out what kinda person you are. just hang in there.
2006-11-13 17:12:06 · answer #6 · answered by burner377 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion it sounds like he does like you. The reason he is calling you names, making jokes, and staring at you is because he likes you...so start giving him crap back and see how he reacts. Play hard to get...he won't know what to do!! Good Luck and enjoy!!
2006-11-13 17:08:29 · answer #7 · answered by Tiffany 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were you i would go up to him and ask him Wat's he's deal. he gonna act all cool and be like "i don't know what you're talking about. if that happens tell him " your loss buddy and move on. if he was a real man, really interested in you he would go up to you and quit beating around the bushes.
good luck
2006-11-13 17:13:21 · answer #8 · answered by Julz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he does but he is messing w/ you in front of his friends to make himself look like a tough guy. I say you confront him by yourself and ask him why he does what he does in front of his friends... see if that will get him to confess.
2006-11-13 17:17:54 · answer #9 · answered by alananavarro22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say yes he does lke you but i would wait for him to a proach you because if he really does like you then it will happen let things run its due course
2006-11-13 17:10:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋