Help! What would you do?

Question

Heres the details, Theres this younger man about a six years age difference from me. He's asked me out, and flirts with me constanley. I've been flirting back. Hes pretty cute and all. I'm Kindof starting to like him a lil, and one of my best friends knows it. So we were at my best friends house last nite, and we were all drinking. Shes an ausome person, were really close, except I went to the bathroom and when I came out she was in her bedroom with him, the door was closed. So I was so upset that I went home crying. What should I do. She said she didnt do anything, but he called me let me know that they were kissing and all. That he was sorry, it was the drunkness hitting him. What do you guys think? What do I do? I really don't need the drama, just gotten my heartbroken almost three months ago by my Ex Bf. Its still hurts, and now this happens. I'm starting to have major trust issues with people, and that scares me.

Answer 1

At least he called you and was honest and sorry for what he did.

Your friend on the other hand is no friend, she is jealous of you.

Take it slow and see what happens.....I would be hurt as well.

Answer 2

Honey, keep looking. He is not the one for you or anyone else for a long time.
Why are you asking other guys what they think? They all pretty much think the same way.
Besides what kind of friend would do you like that if she knows how you feel?
Always look at a situation as though you were advising someone, not the victim of circumstance.
He and she is only playing with you.

Answer 3

you can keep your awesome friend if you want, but how "awesome" of a friend is she if she's kissing the guy she knows you like. I mean I know you aren't together with him, but she directly violated the friend code with that one. As for him, tell him be a man, don't blame it on the liquor, because if he can't handle his liquor he shouldn't drink. Suppose you hooked up with him and he got drunk again, would he make out with someone else and blame it on the liquor. Let them have each other, with friends like those who needs enemies. You would constantly be looking over your back to see if they creeping. You better off by yourself. Don't lose faith in people, you just have to be a better judge of character. All the best.

Answer 4

well you should be angry its not about trust its about principle no matter how drunk she was she and he didnt give a f4ck about your feelings. You should be happy you found out what kind of person he was so god bless and stay away from immature boys.

Answer 5

Get you a new set of friends...First come first served! But Next time, don't tell or give hints to your friends...

Answer 6

WELL SINCE U WERE NEVER EALLY DATING HIM AND HE DID DO KISSING AND ALL I WOULD DEFENTLY NOT DATE HIM , BECAUSE IF HE GETS TO DRINK ING AND GOES OFF WITH UR FRIEND HE WILL NOT BE TRUSTWORTHY TO DATE , I AM SURE UR A VERY ATTRACTIVE WOMAN AND AM SURE THERE ARE BETTER MEN OUT THERE SO GOOD LUCK TO YOU MA'AM!!!!!!!!!!!!!11

Answer 7

personally, i think you shouldn't prolong any type of relationship with him because being drunk has nothing to do with it. he wanted to go in the bedroom with your friend. plus, you should be mad with your so called friend because she knew that you liked him.

Answer 8

Move on,Do you really want a guy that kisses your friends when he is drunk?

Answer 9

i feel you..girl he is young n confused...probably just needs a more matured person to straigthen him,datz y ...bygones are bygones...everyone makes mistakes just let it burn..if u like him give him another chance

Answer 10

well i certainly wouldnt want to trust him agagin with my friends and alcohol ,why would you?