i think that the man but some girls don't let us pay what do you think?
2006-11-13 08:43:55 · 12 answers · asked by ness loves laura 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Usually I let the guy pay on the first date, but I ask if I can pay at least for myself. Then if we go out again I like to pay. Switching off is good. I don't think it's fair to make the guy pay all the time. We don't live in that kind of world anymore.
2006-11-13 08:47:03 · answer #1 · answered by *mxgirl115* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The man pays for what HE did. The woman pays for what SHE did. No one should have to pay for something they didn't do. Keep it 50/50 and everybody's happy. I, personally, would never let a guy pay for me. I can afford a meal.
2006-11-13 17:26:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's whoever asked for the date - if the guy asked the girl the guy should pay- if the girl asked the guy the girl should pay - I find that only fair don't you?
2006-11-13 16:51:00 · answer #3 · answered by Cntrygrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when I was dating I would offer to pay, if I liked the guy and see if they would let me pay....or we would just go half. If he took me up on my offer and let me pay the first date I might rethink going out with him again, but anytime after that dutch or if he offers is always cool.
2006-11-13 16:55:03 · answer #4 · answered by Tara A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Equal rights means sharing the tab! Unless you like being played for a sucker who will shell out for everything. If she expects you to pay, she's a gold digger.
2006-11-13 16:49:20 · answer #5 · answered by rhythm.nbass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the girls who dont let you pay have something wrong with them. Men should pay. That's how it is.
2006-11-13 16:49:48 · answer #6 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoever asked for the date should pay, imo
2006-11-13 16:49:37 · answer #7 · answered by fickle™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always the guys when you are "courting" or "talking"... but in a full blown we are boyfriend/girlfriend... 50/50. Whoever initiates the date or asks...
2006-11-13 16:46:18 · answer #8 · answered by AGirl2Friendly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU ALL SHOULD GO DUTCH ( PAY FOR YOUR OWN) IF IT IS THE FIRST DATE, AND THEN IF HE/ SHE SUGGEST YOU ALL GO OUT THEN THAT PERSON PAYS. BUT IN MOST SITUATIONS THE MAN PAYS.
2006-11-13 16:48:20 · answer #9 · answered by cheyjas_1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the guy should unless theres some other agreement after the first 90 days
2006-11-13 16:45:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋