Ok so after all that me and the guy talked friday night finally after like 4 days and he said he still wanted to talk and that he liked me too much not to want me in his life....of course i was like aww...so then he called sunday night saying he missed me and wanted to come over monday (today) and then we just went on talking and he wants to sleep together but im not ready for that how do i tell him?
we are both in our 20s and we have talked about 2 months but during that 2 months we stopped talking for maybe two weeks because he was going a bit to fast
what should i do?
2006-11-13 08:42:47 · 4 answers · asked by Monica H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him flat out, I like you but I am not going to have sex with you. Or hypothetically ask him what's the longest he's ever talked to a girl b4 sex, then drop the bomb on him. All the best. Don't give it up, you said you stopped talking once b4 because he was going to fast, so don't let him rush you this time. For some reason guys feel that they earn the privilege of having sex with a girl because they put in "time on the phone" Don't be a sucker for a quick witted man with a smooth tongue. All the best.
2006-11-13 08:49:18 · answer #1 · answered by TRUTH HURTZ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you've got things under control already. If you two can talk, you've already got a lot going for you. Keep it up.
2006-11-13 08:45:59 · answer #2 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see me when i date a guy i pretty much let them know right off the bat what i am looking for....so tell him that you are looking for a relationship that is built on love and respect...not a relationship that is casual
2006-11-13 08:46:32 · answer #3 · answered by Gemini P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him your not ready. Just don't do something just cause he wants you to.
2006-11-13 08:45:47 · answer #4 · answered by itsallforyou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋