i just want to know because i am told that it is very wrong by most of the adults i know and i think it's ok. i was told i am going to h*ll for having mixed kids. is that right??
2006-11-13 08:41:05 · 33 answers · asked by trisha_r_c 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why would it be wrong!!!!....im of mixed blood...does that make me less of a human...you need to get away from these racist pigs and start making ur own views...u dun hate someone just cuz they are different , thats the kind of attitude ignorent people displays....
2006-11-14 00:37:02 · answer #1 · answered by nfocuz00 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are, but by you using the word adult, I would guess you are a little younger. So coming from a 30 year old guy. Older (adults) people still have the thought process of when they were growing up. So of course they will tell you that it is wrong, because some of them grew up when not all races were equal.
Now to the way I think; Personally it is not for me. But who am I to tell you what to do. It is not something i would do, but that doesn't mean it is wrong. Enjoy your life and make the most of it. If you are in love with a person of a different race, good for you. At least you have found someone to love and someone to love you.
The only way to stop racism, is to stop talking about it. Stop referring to that guy as Mexican, or that girl as black. Aren't they just a guy or a girl? Why do people even call it an interracial relationship? Isn't it just a relationship? I am white, and I have black friends, do I have interracial friendships? NO!!!! I have gay friends, does that mean I have homosexual friendships, NO!!!!!. I have friendships period.
Sorry for the preaching but I think it helped my point. Do as you please and don't let others influence your decisions.
2006-11-13 08:53:53 · answer #2 · answered by Highroller 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is absolutely nothing wrong with interracial dating or having "mixed kids". Whoever told you that is a racist idiot and living in the dark ages.
2006-11-13 08:43:12 · answer #3 · answered by Joanne B 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, I do not believe that you will go to hell for having interracial kids. We are all God's children. People need to quit judging others! If it is what you want - then do it. Don't try to live by others opinions. Make yourself happy. You are not hurting anyone. You can't help who you fall in love with! There is good and bad in all races.
2006-11-13 08:45:06 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is absolutely nothing wrong with interracial dating. Mixed kids? whats wrong with getting the best of both worlds...
2006-11-13 08:47:33 · answer #5 · answered by Keepingmycool 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well that is a very closed minded view of any relationship. If two people love each other it shouldn't matter what their race is. The problem is, closed minded people, like the ones advising you are always going to be around, making things very difficult for you. It's a matter of how strong you are and how willing you are to give up those closed minded relationships. Good luck to you.
2006-11-13 08:45:50 · answer #6 · answered by funkydesign03 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No you aren't going to hell because of who you fell in love with and had children from. Some folks are just opinionated and ridiculous and you have to ignore that rubbish. I don't have a problem with interracial dating because things have changed. I get angry about things like what happened to our brothers and sisters back in the day as in with that 14 year old baby Emmit who was murdered and horribly tortured for supposedly whistling at some caucasian woman but things aren't as bad as they used to be. There is one relationship that I have a problem with and it's not because it's interracial it's because of the persona that the brother exhibited. Ice T played a gangsta role, he was black this and black that and black up and down the line----and turned around and married a blonde haired blue eyed woman. It just knocked me for a loop because it's like he lied to us. I don't know maybe I'm just trippin but I don't like the way he played his face.
2006-11-13 08:52:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Personally, there is nothing wrong with interracial dating. They are human just like you and I, with saying that, no one is better than the other person, and to be honest, the only people that think like that are the ignorant ones. Don't let race decide your fate.
2006-11-13 08:51:36 · answer #8 · answered by lasifuentes1 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The only reason for going to hell is not having Jesus as your personal savior. I have read the Bible many times over and have never seen a passage that says anything remotely like that. Moses, King David, and King Solomon all married outside of their races, do you think THEY are in hell? I hardly think so.Ok now that the Bible study is out of the way..... I have dated women of several races caucasian, african american, asian, and hispanic each relationship was a great experience I would reccomend it for anybody open minded enough to try it.
2006-11-13 08:50:55 · answer #9 · answered by snoop_dougie_doug04 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
god bless you for asking this question.
don't worry about what those crazy adults around you are saying.
i am 12.5% white and the rest of me is black. there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with having a child with someone of another race. if those people are saying that you'll go to hell for something like that, then they need to pick up the bible and read it thoroughly. (what religion are the people that told you that? please write it in your details for that question and I'll help you out some more.)
think about this:
if having kids with someone of a different race would send you to hell, then what would you have to do with the mixed kid when he or she was born? you would probably have to kill them, correct? but wouldn't that be even more ungodly?
If you ask God that question, I promise you, he will answer.
-god bless ^_^
2006-11-13 08:52:43 · answer #10 · answered by Kiki 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋