A guy "friend" I spend a lot of time with is always talking about girls. Every five minutes it's, "I need to find a girlfriend", "I wanna go meet some chicks", "Hook me up with one of your friends", "I met a girl last night", "That girl is cute". He'll even calls me up sometimes just to tell me he met a girl or "got lucky". I have been under the impression that he likes me alot from what has been said and what has happened between us. I just can't figure him out. I can only figure a.) he is trying to tell me he's not interested in me "that way" b.) he's trying to make me jealous c.) he has low self esteem and is trying to make his love life sound better. Your opinions would be so helpful. Thanks!!!
2006-11-13 07:59:07 · 11 answers · asked by Megan K 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have a guy friend who acts just like what you described. he is always talking about other girls and it makes me jealous...he tells me he doesnt like me as anything more then a friend but he doesnt act like it. he is always putting moves on me and trying to kiss me when we are not around everyone else. he stares at me and all sorts of stuff. i think he likes you and just doesnt know how to tell you. you should talk to him about it and see what he says.
2006-11-13 08:08:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you say he likes you a lot but constantly talks about other females to you? This guy only sees you as someone to talk to or for when the other "got lucky" women are unavailable. I don't think you should put any feelings into whatever it may be. Have fun and live life to the fullest.
2006-11-13 16:04:25 · answer #2 · answered by inquisitor1125 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally think that either:
He is trying to make you jealous and get you for himself
or
He is just a doofus and doesn't realize what a horn dog he sounds like. Guys do that sometimes with their friends, and he may not think of you as a "girl" but as a buddy. That might be why he babbles on about the girls like that to you.
2006-11-13 16:01:44 · answer #3 · answered by nottashygirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can see why you aren't able to "figure him out", his behavior is a bit "confusing".
How do you feel about him? Are you interested? Maybe he is trying to "make you jealous" because he's interested in you and doesn't know how to let you know.
If you talk all the time why don't you just ask him why he feels the need to constantly talk about other girls? If you ask, maybe he can explain it.
Good luck.
2006-11-13 16:04:51 · answer #4 · answered by Mugsy's Place 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a way
You frankly say that you don't like guys who go behind each and every girls and who is not straight forwards and sturdy.
You like a unshakable male friend..
if he doesn't like it leave him.
Tomorrow never dies.... world is very big which is hardly to imagine...
try something else.
Good luck.
2006-11-13 16:09:53 · answer #5 · answered by SAJEESH M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was that into you he certainly wouldnt be saying things like that. I dont know how far you have gone with this guy, but he obviously doesnt take it that seriously.
2006-11-13 16:02:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
low self esteem, and he likes you and he is trying to make you jealous
2006-11-13 16:02:03 · answer #7 · answered by fourcheeks4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is treating you like a guy friend.... thats what we do when we are in need of a female companion...
2006-11-13 16:00:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the answer is D hes just being an asshole leave his asss
2006-11-13 16:01:37 · answer #9 · answered by rives 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is both B and C
2006-11-13 16:02:04 · answer #10 · answered by Melissa H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋